You are too old for that?
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Tigerpride
THE Logical ONE
Re: You are told for that?
It depends on where you live too. If my wife and I have kids, we are out of luck up here but if we lived at home, I don't see any reason why we can't go where we want. My family is just that...a family. I can't think of a mother or father in my family who can't do what they want based on kids...that includes anything from going to college to got out to the club or away for the weekend. My aunts, uncles, etc... pretty much all love kids and they never give the mothers and fathers in my family any grief over keeping kids.
Now, they ain't too keen on keeping your kids for the purpose of you going to lay up with different people every chance you get but if you have something to do, you ain't gotta worry about your kids.
It depends on where you live too. If my wife and I have kids, we are out of luck up here but if we lived at home, I don't see any reason why we can't go where we want. My family is just that...a family. I can't think of a mother or father in my family who can't do what they want based on kids...that includes anything from going to college to got out to the club or away for the weekend. My aunts, uncles, etc... pretty much all love kids and they never give the mothers and fathers in my family any grief over keeping kids.
Now, they ain't too keen on keeping your kids for the purpose of you going to lay up with different people every chance you get but if you have something to do, you ain't gotta worry about your kids.
kellis
SU Jags!!!
Re: You are told for that?
You make it sound as if a vacation is a bi-weekly or monthly thing. I'm glad his Dad, my Mom, sisters, and his other grandparents don't mind taking care of him while I am gone on vacation or anywhere else for that matter.
You make it sound as if a vacation is a bi-weekly or monthly thing. I'm glad his Dad, my Mom, sisters, and his other grandparents don't mind taking care of him while I am gone on vacation or anywhere else for that matter.
Tigerpride
THE Logical ONE
Re: You are told for that?
I know a woman back home who is like 45-50. She has been married for like 30 years...her kids are grown and she has grandkids but her husband been cheatin on her for that whole 30 years and she been fighting other women that whole time. As recently as two weeks ago, her husband's newest woman had to put in a restraining order on her because she kept turning up everywhere the woman and her husband was.
She too old for that!
I know a woman back home who is like 45-50. She has been married for like 30 years...her kids are grown and she has grandkids but her husband been cheatin on her for that whole 30 years and she been fighting other women that whole time. As recently as two weeks ago, her husband's newest woman had to put in a restraining order on her because she kept turning up everywhere the woman and her husband was.
She too old for that!
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
Re: You are told for that?
Nah, that ain't about age. She's just stupid and has been since Day 1 of acceptance of her husband cheating and fighting the wrong person.
Nah, that ain't about age. She's just stupid and has been since Day 1 of acceptance of her husband cheating and fighting the wrong person.
jsupop33
Loyalty & Respect
Re: You are told for that?
Many of our grandmothers and mother's accepted their hubby cheating. Lets be honest. My grandfather was a rolling stone.
Many of our grandmothers and mother's accepted their hubby cheating. Lets be honest. My grandfather was a rolling stone.
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
Re: You are told for that?
It ain't about being honest either. Still stupid, especially to fight other women over a man who cheats. The battle is with the WRONG PERSON!
It ain't about being honest either. Still stupid, especially to fight other women over a man who cheats. The battle is with the WRONG PERSON!
jsupop33
Loyalty & Respect
Re: You are told for that?
yeah, now that is ignorant. I find chicks like that lack self esteem.
yeah, now that is ignorant. I find chicks like that lack self esteem.
CEE DOG
Well-Known Member
Re: You are told for that?
Unfortunately, there are some dudes doing it also. You would be surprised at the amount of men raising someone eles child his wife had, that he knows i not his, but will raise it anyway.......... They don't say "Momma's baby, daddies maybe for nothing"........
Unfortunately, there are some dudes doing it also. You would be surprised at the amount of men raising someone eles child his wife had, that he knows i not his, but will raise it anyway.......... They don't say "Momma's baby, daddies maybe for nothing"........
Warndalyn
Postmaster General!!!
Re: You are told for that?
well hell, how often would one be going on vacation? If the grandparents is not an option, something is wrong.
well hell, how often would one be going on vacation? If the grandparents is not an option, something is wrong.
SUJagFan
Well-Known Member
Re: You are told for that?
We may be talking about a different set of values with our grandparents generation.
My grandfather was a rolling stone too, but my grandmother was in no way naive, stupid or lacked self-esteem. Nor was the cheating "accepted". Divorce just wasn't as acceptable in her generation and there may have been a religious connotation also.
We may be talking about a different set of values with our grandparents generation.
My grandfather was a rolling stone too, but my grandmother was in no way naive, stupid or lacked self-esteem. Nor was the cheating "accepted". Divorce just wasn't as acceptable in her generation and there may have been a religious connotation also.
jsupop33
Loyalty & Respect
Re: You are told for that?
My Grandmother wasn't either. I think it was simply a matter of economics and mindsets with their generation. My grandmother had 12 children and no job for the most part. How was she going to survive if she left?
My Grandmother wasn't either. I think it was simply a matter of economics and mindsets with their generation. My grandmother had 12 children and no job for the most part. How was she going to survive if she left?
ATLJag
Active Member
Re: You are told for that?
I would think even a couple of times a year may even be a stretch, especially while they are very young. Since my mother and her husband aren't close to retirement age, that would mean that they would end up having to drag the kid to day care and then rush home from work to pick him up when they didn't necessarily sign up for that. I'm sure they wouldn't mind a weekend or two, but I can see where any real vacations during the week could cause a problem.
I would think even a couple of times a year may even be a stretch, especially while they are very young. Since my mother and her husband aren't close to retirement age, that would mean that they would end up having to drag the kid to day care and then rush home from work to pick him up when they didn't necessarily sign up for that. I'm sure they wouldn't mind a weekend or two, but I can see where any real vacations during the week could cause a problem.
Re: You are told for that?
You'll be surprised to find out how good grandparents are at making time for their grandkids.
You'll be surprised to find out how good grandparents are at making time for their grandkids.
CEE DOG
Well-Known Member
Re: You are told for that?
That is so true. Shyt my dad spends more time with his grandkids, then he did with his own kids. :lmao: He gives them allowances, he didn't give us shyt but a speech and a hard time to go. :lol:
That is so true. Shyt my dad spends more time with his grandkids, then he did with his own kids. :lmao: He gives them allowances, he didn't give us shyt but a speech and a hard time to go. :lol:
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
Re: You are told for that?
For real! :lol:
My parents would love more time with my son and my brother's kids. And my father is definitely "softer" with the grandkids than he was with us.
For real! :lol:
My parents would love more time with my son and my brother's kids. And my father is definitely "softer" with the grandkids than he was with us.
Warndalyn
Postmaster General!!!
Re: You are told for that?
Exactly...my Mother does a shytload more with my child than she ever did with me....I'm like WTH!?!? :xeye:
:lol:
Exactly...my Mother does a shytload more with my child than she ever did with me....I'm like WTH!?!? :xeye:
:lol:
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jsupop33
Loyalty & Respect
Re: You are told for that?
this is true for my nephew. We got beat for all types of stuff. They let my nephew run around the house like a madman.
SUJagFan
Well-Known Member
Re: You are told for that?
Nah.
My parents enjoy their empty nest. They like their freedom to go and come as they please. They might want to go on vacation too. :lol:
They like the grandkids and all, but take those little bad arses with you. They've never said that, but I think that's the way they feel. :lol:
Nah.
My parents enjoy their empty nest. They like their freedom to go and come as they please. They might want to go on vacation too. :lol:
They like the grandkids and all, but take those little bad arses with you. They've never said that, but I think that's the way they feel. :lol:
CEE DOG
Well-Known Member
Re: You are told for that?
My pops be letting my nieces and nephews play with his tools and everything. Man he cussed me out a couple of weeks ago for moving his tools. :lol: Then gone say "Boy I know you ain't jealous of no child". Man I was 38 hot. :lol:
For real! :lol:
My parents would love more time with my son and my brother's kids. And my father is definitely "softer" with the grandkids than he was with us.
My pops be letting my nieces and nephews play with his tools and everything. Man he cussed me out a couple of weeks ago for moving his tools. :lol: Then gone say "Boy I know you ain't jealous of no child". Man I was 38 hot. :lol:
Warndalyn
Postmaster General!!!
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
Re: You are told for that?
Your mother is an old person now trying to get into Heaven. That is why she's doing more with your kid than she did with you.
Your mother is an old person now trying to get into Heaven. That is why she's doing more with your kid than she did with you.
jstate83
GOAT FARM!
Re: You are told for that?
:lol:
Not to old to show up when one of my boy's is there having fun with their kids. Plenty of SINGLE MOMMIEs and their SINGLE FRIENDS that come with them up in that joint. :goof:
:lol:
Not to old to show up when one of my boy's is there having fun with their kids. Plenty of SINGLE MOMMIEs and their SINGLE FRIENDS that come with them up in that joint. :goof:
Tigerpride
THE Logical ONE
Re: You are told for that?
I'm never too old to play. I love to play. :lol:
I'm the first one outside with the kids.
I'm never too old to play. I love to play. :lol:
I'm the first one outside with the kids.