The Term "Down Low Brother" Defined by Me


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Nita that's only 2 cases...I have seen over 46 hemophiliacs die of AIDS becasue they recieved blood transfusions. Furthermore I could provide you with more horror stories worse than the ones you described.

...so come on....the point that I am making is...this DL mess is just another crutch for hiding the real truth and people not willing to take responsibility themselves.
 
I think the families of those two cases would beg to differ about that ONLY.

By the way, if a woman's husband is fugging men, for WHAT exactly should SHE be taking responsibility?
 



Let me clarify my position here. I do not knock homosexuals, nor those who live alternative lifestyles. To each his own. I still think that if you screw someone of the same sex, you're gay, but that's vocabulary.

My problem comes in when people put those they claim to love at risk by keeping such things a secret. That is NOT fair, and the woman/man on the receiving end of such deception is NOT responsible for the heartbreak they endure when they find out such. My ONLY two examples (of many; I can only speak on what I know), are living proof of such heartbreak.

If you wanna fugg both, then fugg both, but be UP FRONT with it! Don't be all trying to HIDE that isht behind some false sense of man/womanhood.
 
My beautiful black queens & VITA,

If a man is bisexual he is attracted to "BOTH" men and women.
If a man is metrosexual that means he is basically an over the top pretty boy. I.E. He wears the stuff to make your eyebrows real black, he gets his hands and feet manicured, he gets facials in other words he may do alot of things that ladies may do, and do it better than them as it relates to the image, and he may even be feminine but this ***** is not all gay. Nor does he desire to be with a man, but everything may be pointing in his direction. The Key word is that he may come across as a lil' lady, but he is far from it. Alot of people may assume that he is gay b/c of how he acts, but little do you know it he will do you, your mom, sister(s), etc. as long as it is a woman. That's why it is so hard to tell if a ***** is gay or not. Another example, look men like Blair Underwood, the man from Soul Food (the series) who is married to the chick with the braids, and have the son, look at DMX, and the list goes on. Professional football players, b-ball, etc. And this is no lie. (I am from the ATL; therefore, I know what I am talking about)! And yeah, I have a friend that gets down with both men and women, although it is not right (I tell him that all the time) but he feels like nothing is work with having the best of both worlds. That is how he feel, I don't like it, but he is my friend though. And this *****s, stand about 6'2, 230, solid muscle, most women get wet just looking at him, and the ***** pull more o's (my bad) women than I do.

Gay, is a man has ever done anything with another one is Gay. I totally agree with that statment. But with me it all begins in the head; therefore, if a ***** has ever though about being with another man is he gay as well? That was just some food for though. DL men, yes they are gay no matter how you look at but the term "DL" is just a lable that is given to these groups of men that are not flamming. A DL ***** is one that keeps his **** on the low, he acts, should, and look like a *****. He will roll up a blunt with the best of them, but later on he will be beating in some "other" kind of guts if you get me. Most "DL" *****s don't hang out at gay clubs, nor do they have alot of gay friends. They might have 1 straight friend that knows and that's about it. Why are they "DL" to start from some may ask. Well as I have already stated earlier, you never know what could have happened in someones life, or what in the hell is going on in their heads. They are Gods children as well though, and actually there proably more gay men in the church than any other place.

The main thing is, if you are having regular sex or gay sex protect yourself. Although condoms are 100%, they are the closest thing anyone can come to far as protection if you are going to have sex. And my lovely women, the next time one of us (str8 men) or whatever else yall calls us are going down on yall, make sure you pull out the dental dam. (How many of you REALLY use them, and I do mean really)? And for the record, its is easier for a WOMAN to give HIV/AIDS to MAN than for us to give it to you all.
 
By the way, BB03, you are EXACTLY right about that DL term referring to both homo and heterosexual "outside the relationship" issues.
 
I too know at least two childhood classmates who have been diagnosed with the AIDS virus...not HIV....but AIDS. ...meaning, the HIV virus was active and taking their bodies down.

One was a girl who obviously bumped it with the wrong dude. The other is a guy who most people from my grade school have known as a homosexual since 4th grade. I saw him in the last 2 years and he told me that he was HIV positive, and he told me that he tried to contact people he had been with in the past to inform them of his condition. And he was trying to set up a "Talk with Teens" to let them know that this stuff is real. This man also has a daughter....Imagine the termoil that her mother is going thru. They don't know when he contracted the virus.
 
My step dad recently lost his neice to Aids who was MARRIED to a DL brother. He passed the diesease on to her and we are not sure if their two kids have it. So you can't convince me that this DL mess is a just a label. Its a lifestyle a very dangerous one. If men/women would be honest with their mate and own up to having unprotected with anyone and get regular tests. Then things may be different in this fight against this disease.
 
My thing is this...why all of a sudden is this a topic of interest. Folks have been doing the DL shizit for years...men AND women...this ain't new. Since that e-mail about the book by some fudge packer came out, folks are acting like this is new.

Folks need to be more selective about who they are sleeping with and protect themselves. And don't be afraid to ask your S/O questions about their past. If you can't be open and honest maybe y'all need to stay outta the bed. Aids is not picking and choosing who gets it...that mess is taking out anybody.

Protect yourself folks.
 
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Tara said:

No, I'M RIGHT! Beautiful, I know what I am talking about. Not only have I been given STD seminars since I was like 15 for the YMCA, and Boys and Girls Club, but I actually use to work with the CDC, and Grady Health Care Systems (ATL) in regards tp viral infections and so forth. I have the training and the knowledge that comes along with. All that I say is factual, and if you need more proor talk with some who has an M.D. or close enough to it.

P.S. Research you topic before you attempt to speak on it. No love lost tough.
 
SB99 said:
P.S. Research you topic before you attempt to speak on it. No love lost tough.

Would having this conversation with my dad and sister (both Board Certified praticing M.D.'s), my brother-in-law (a Ph.D Professor of Anatomy and Physiology), and my gynecologist qualify as ?research??

:confused:
 
Vinita said:
Let me clarify my position here. I do not knock homosexuals, nor those who live alternative lifestyles. To each his own. I still think that if you screw someone of the same sex, you're gay, but that's vocabulary.

My problem comes in when people put those they claim to love at risk by keeping such things a secret. That is NOT fair, and the woman/man on the receiving end of such deception is NOT responsible for the heartbreak they endure when they find out such. My ONLY two examples (of many; I can only speak on what I know), are living proof of such heartbreak.

If you wanna fugg both, then fugg both, but be UP FRONT with it! Don't be all trying to HIDE that isht behind some false sense of man/womanhood.


co-sign. :tup:

Also, why would a brother want to keep it a secret. If you a sleeping with both male and female, you are a homosexual. Ain't no way around that.

You can talk about all the women you sleep with but if you have sex with a man at any time, you are GAY!!
 
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ :nod: :nod: :nod:
I don't see it any other way.

How can A PERSON NOT LOOK AT THEMSELVES AS GAY sleeping with the same sex. IF A PERSON IS DOING THIS ...........YOU GAY ................ MAN or WOMAN. :confused: :confused:

They got labels for everything. :look:
 



SLT said:
You can talk about all the women you sleep with but if you have sex with a man at any time, you are GAY!!
And that my friends is the BOTTOM LINE. (This goes for women as well.) Gay is gay is gay.
 
To all of the men who started/responded, are you homosexual or bisexual AND have you ever had a "down low" relationship while involved with a woman?

Just wondering, for the sake of research! :tup:
 
Seeing Spots said:
To all of the men who started/responded, are you homosexual or bisexual AND have you ever had a "down low" relationship while involved with a woman?

Just wondering, for the sake of research! :tup:

:read: :read: :read: :read:
 
Seeing Spots said:
To all of the men who started/responded, are you homosexual or bisexual AND have you ever had a "down low" relationship while involved with a woman?

Just wondering, for the sake of research! :tup:
um, do you really think they'll actually admit to that? :rolleyes:
 
Seeing Spots said:
To all of the men who started/responded, are you homosexual or bisexual AND have you ever had a "down low" relationship while involved with a woman?

Just wondering, for the sake of research! :tup:
Same question to the ladies...for research... :angel2:
 
vertojsu said:
If you had used my entire post, all would see that I put the responsibility of safe sex on anyone who is having sex, whether it is same sex or hetero sex. Please don't misquote me...


I cant misquote what you wrote.
 
amethyst08 said:
My thing is this...why all of a sudden is this a topic of interest. Folks have been doing the DL shizit for years...men AND women...this ain't new. Since that e-mail about the book by some fudge packer came out, folks are acting like this is new.

Folks need to be more selective about who they are sleeping with and protect themselves. And don't be afraid to ask your S/O questions about their past. If you can't be open and honest maybe y'all need to stay outta the bed. Aids is not picking and choosing who gets it...that mess is taking out anybody.

Protect yourself folks.

Preach sis.
 
Seeing Spots said:
To all of the men who started/responded, are you homosexual or bisexual AND have you ever had a "down low" relationship while involved with a woman?

Just wondering, for the sake of research! :tup:


Now all the men that responded to this thread have the "suspect" cloud over them.

:lol:

Yeah this DL thing is getting out of control.
 
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