My beautiful black queens & VITA,
If a man is bisexual he is attracted to "BOTH" men and women.
If a man is metrosexual that means he is basically an over the top pretty boy. I.E. He wears the stuff to make your eyebrows real black, he gets his hands and feet manicured, he gets facials in other words he may do alot of things that ladies may do, and do it better than them as it relates to the image, and he may even be feminine but this ***** is not all gay. Nor does he desire to be with a man, but everything may be pointing in his direction. The Key word is that he may come across as a lil' lady, but he is far from it. Alot of people may assume that he is gay b/c of how he acts, but little do you know it he will do you, your mom, sister(s), etc. as long as it is a woman. That's why it is so hard to tell if a ***** is gay or not. Another example, look men like Blair Underwood, the man from Soul Food (the series) who is married to the chick with the braids, and have the son, look at DMX, and the list goes on. Professional football players, b-ball, etc. And this is no lie. (I am from the ATL; therefore, I know what I am talking about)! And yeah, I have a friend that gets down with both men and women, although it is not right (I tell him that all the time) but he feels like nothing is work with having the best of both worlds. That is how he feel, I don't like it, but he is my friend though. And this *****s, stand about 6'2, 230, solid muscle, most women get wet just looking at him, and the ***** pull more o's (my bad) women than I do.
Gay, is a man has ever done anything with another one is Gay. I totally agree with that statment. But with me it all begins in the head; therefore, if a ***** has ever though about being with another man is he gay as well? That was just some food for though. DL men, yes they are gay no matter how you look at but the term "DL" is just a lable that is given to these groups of men that are not flamming. A DL ***** is one that keeps his **** on the low, he acts, should, and look like a *****. He will roll up a blunt with the best of them, but later on he will be beating in some "other" kind of guts if you get me. Most "DL" *****s don't hang out at gay clubs, nor do they have alot of gay friends. They might have 1 straight friend that knows and that's about it. Why are they "DL" to start from some may ask. Well as I have already stated earlier, you never know what could have happened in someones life, or what in the hell is going on in their heads. They are Gods children as well though, and actually there proably more gay men in the church than any other place.
The main thing is, if you are having regular sex or gay sex protect yourself. Although condoms are 100%, they are the closest thing anyone can come to far as protection if you are going to have sex. And my lovely women, the next time one of us (str8 men) or whatever else yall calls us are going down on yall, make sure you pull out the dental dam. (How many of you REALLY use them, and I do mean really)? And for the record, its is easier for a WOMAN to give HIV/AIDS to MAN than for us to give it to you all.