Brothers: What Problem Do You have With Sisters


Re: I got your Virgo....

BLAQUE PRINCE said:
All about the Virgos mayne :D
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A little about the Virgo:
Virgos are hardworking, reliable, reasonable, scientific, and highly intellectual. Most have sharp minds and are good at a wide variety of things. Virgos are good at dealing with detail work and sorting mass amounts of material. They tend to compartmentalize things in their own mind and view the world through an analytical lens. Their intelligence, modesty, and diplomacy allow them to get along well with most people, though Virgos need to spend a lot of time alone and often prefer their own company or the company of animals to that of humans. Even the more extroverted Virgos will usually hang back in social situations until they?ve assessed the people around them. They do not like to put themselves forward until they are sure what sort of people they are dealing with.Virgos are quick to learn new things and often good at accepting and learning new technology.


read the rest @ shayaweaver.com- Her website is the best descriptions of each sign...She described me (Aquarius) down to a T...
 



dSWACizJSU said:
for the males- the biggest complaint is she is always tired, dosen't dress sexy anymore, not female enough, too emotional, has gained weight, my favorite "she has let herself go", she never wants to do anything, she's spolied,(you talk now, but if u have a daughter, you know and if you don't u will), she is on the phone all day, she has no sense, she's always gone with her girlfriends and they are some PROS. i could go on all day but i refer them to the above paragraph.
- she wasn't fat until she had your child or you took her arse out to eat every night while you were trying to get up in those jeans, she is emotional because of your triflin arse, she is tired because you all are 90/10 with the children and plus she has had to clean up, cook, tend to the children, see just what the HE>> you wanted when you cut the dayum playstation off. she dosen't dress sexy as much because you are either gone or the boys are over.
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Yeah...I don't have kids (hey), but sometimes I think men don't realize the changes a woman's body goes through during those 9 months. At the same time, some women could at least make an effort to lose that weight as well. I believe in keeping myself marketable, YES even when I get married.
 
Re: I got your Virgo....

LadyLuck13 said:
A little about the Virgo:
Virgos are hardworking, reliable, reasonable, scientific, and highly intellectual. Most have sharp minds and are good at a wide variety of things. Virgos are good at dealing with detail work and sorting mass amounts of material. They tend to compartmentalize things in their own mind and view the world through an analytical lens. Their intelligence, modesty, and diplomacy allow them to get along well with most people, though Virgos need to spend a lot of time alone and often prefer their own company or the company of animals to that of humans. Even the more extroverted Virgos will usually hang back in social situations until they?ve assessed the people around them. They do not like to put themselves forward until they are sure what sort of people they are dealing with.Virgos are quick to learn new things and often good at accepting and learning new technology.


read the rest @ shayaweaver.com- Her website is the best descriptions of each sign...She described me (Aquarius) down to a T...
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And you're a sexy Delta? That makes every Delta I know an Aquarius (my mother and some other folk). Interesting.......


Anyhew
Yeah...I don't have kids (hey), but sometimes I think men don't realize the changes a woman's body goes through during those 9 months. At the same time, some women could at least make an effort to lose that weight as well. I believe in keeping myself marketable, YES even when I get married.
I agree with this. I'll even add miscarriage to that list. Keeping marketable when married? You're asking for more kids then.....muwhahahahahahahaha :sperm: :tophat: :jump:
 
i dont really have a problem with black women!....I LOVE THEM!:D

I say that because outta all the women Ive dealt with! whether it was a good or bad experience...its not like I didnt have an idea of how things would go already...just look at there attitude!, or opinions on certain things, even the level of self-esteem! you cant really expect someone who is not happy with themselves to treat you good cuz they have "major" issues they need to address....fortunately Ive been able to weave thru all the bs before its to late with the method of analysis above!...those women who pass the analysis more than likely end up being GREAT experiences and thats what makes it even more fulfilling when a relationship between us is established:D

Ive always stayed tru to the notion....THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON!!!:D
 
Re: I got your Virgo....

LadyLuck13 said:
A little about the Virgo:
Virgos are hardworking, reliable, reasonable, scientific, and highly intellectual. Most have sharp minds and are good at a wide variety of things. Virgos are good at dealing with detail work and sorting mass amounts of material. They tend to compartmentalize things in their own mind and view the world through an analytical lens. Their intelligence, modesty, and diplomacy allow them to get along well with most people, though Virgos need to spend a lot of time alone and often prefer their own company or the company of animals to that of humans. Even the more extroverted Virgos will usually hang back in social situations until they?ve assessed the people around them. They do not like to put themselves forward until they are sure what sort of people they are dealing with.Virgos are quick to learn new things and often good at accepting and learning new technology.
The detail work and mass sorting might be a little shaky but this had got to be about the best description of myself I have ever read. :nod:
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don't get me wrong there some very good men out there and they are the ideal man. what the man fails to realize with the average woman is that it is not always about how much money you have, but how you manage it. no, we don't want a lazy, triflin, 10kid having statistic. those are just standards that all people have. men don't want a lazy, triflin, 10kid having statistics. there will always be a tug-of-war of the good male vs the good female, but it always seems like we pick the one in between.
 
dSWACizJSU said:
don't get me wrong there some very good men out there and they are the ideal man. what the man fails to realize with the average woman is that it is not always about how much money you have, but how you manage it. no, we don't want a lazy, triflin, 10kid having statistic. those are just standards that all people have. men don't want a lazy, triflin, 10kid having statistics. there will always be a tug-of-war of the good male vs the good female, but it always seems like we pick the one in between.
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The ideal mate keeps people single. :smh:
 
LadyLuck13 said:
Explain.
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If your ideal mate is 100% of what you want and we know that human error can't be 100% and doesn't allow for us to actually do something 100% correct then you coouldn't possibly hopr for your ideal mate to meet every ideal. Like that revolving stroy/parable about the 3 wishes the genie gives that has some flaw to it. I say expect nothing but demand your own standard: i.e. what you look for in a mate. An ideal shared by many people on the "real" man or the "right" woman is usually something where the person hasn't made up their mind through trial and error and have only seen and expected the error to begin with. I say, find out what YOU really like personally outside of what society would say and go from there. I love women because they can't be perfect. Some flaw a chick has will exist in the chick I marry one day. That makes her a good match because I can't be perfect either and don't strive to be. :heart:
Geez you got me souding soft. :ebrow: :dizzy:


*legal disclaimer: I've been wrong before and now and again I will be wrong as usual. I'm human. I'm also Superman. :hat:
 
I have a problem with women who have a low tolerance for bull****. Not saying that you should have a high tolerance for it, but I'm talking about having tolerance so low that you start sensing **** that ain't there.

Women who are overly materialist asking you to have this and that, and they ain't got ****. I mean who DAFUC are you?

Women who REFUSE to get cultured in any way shape or form.
 
well for all my lovely swac men, here is a joke that a co-worker passed on to me today. tell me how you like it:

women are like apples on trees. the best ones are at the top of the tree. most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.....

so the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. they just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.

share this with other women who are good apples, even those who have already been picked!

and...men are like fine wine. they start out as grapes, and it's up to women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with......... ;)
 
dSWACizJSU said:
well for all my lovely swac men, here is a joke that a co-worker passed on to me today. tell me how you like it:

women are like apples on trees. the best ones are at the top of the tree. most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.....

so the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. they just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.

share this with other women who are good apples, even those who have already been picked!

and...men are like fine wine. they start out as grapes, and it's up to women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with......... ;)
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I am like good sex. All you women who claim you ain't had none should GRAVITATE TO IT. :nod:
 
MightyDog said:
I have a problem with them saying No Sir and Yes Sir. At the VFW I don't get this.
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Yep. This is why the man is a legend. :lmao: :lmao:
 
lilC said:
If your ideal mate is 100% of what you want and we know that human error can't be 100% and doesn't allow for us to actually do something 100% correct then you coouldn't possibly hopr for your ideal mate to meet every ideal. Like that revolving stroy/parable about the 3 wishes the genie gives that has some flaw to it. I say expect nothing but demand your own standard: i.e. what you look for in a mate. An ideal shared by many people on the "real" man or the "right" woman is usually something where the person hasn't made up their mind through trial and error and have only seen and expected the error to begin with. I say, find out what YOU really like personally outside of what society would say and go from there. I love women because they can't be perfect. Some flaw a chick has will exist in the chick I marry one day. That makes her a good match because I can't be perfect either and don't strive to be. :heart:
Geez you got me souding soft. :ebrow: :dizzy:


*legal disclaimer: I've been wrong before and now and again I will be wrong as usual. I'm human. I'm also Superman. :hat:
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I agree that searching for the "ideal" mate does cause alot of relationships that could have worked not to. The key word is work. Lilc is right that there is no person that is 100% right for you nor are you 100% right for anyone else. People abandon relationships because if there is just 20% wrong then they seem to feel that its not the "right" person when that 20% required the same work to fix it as it will with anyone else.

I think I differ a lil bit from lilc in that people create the idea of their "ideal" mate by piecing together what they did and didn't like from past relationships and creating this person that is really a whole bunch of people and does not exist.
 



dSWACizJSU said:
women are like apples on trees. the best ones are at the top of the tree. most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.....

so the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. they just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
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:nod: 2 thumbs up to that dswac!! :tup: :tup: I sometimes wonder, because I'm 22 years old, been out of college 1 year now, live on my own, pay all my bills, and I believe I'm a beustiful person (inside & out), and no CHIRENS, what am I doing wrong? But I kinda live old fashion when it comes to dating a man. I just don't believe that I should settle for a mediocre man. I'm not a mediocre woman...I am one of those women can smell bullish from a mile away. It's not even the status of a man.

So Justin, why should we (women) have ANY tolerance for bullish? Men don't settle for a mediocre woman. Men end up with that woman who didn't give out quick, carries herself well, and other qualities follow.
 
LadyLuck13 said:
I sometimes wonder, because I'm 22 years old, been out of college 1 year now, live on my own, pay all my bills, and I believe I'm a beustiful person (inside & out), and no CHIRENS, what am I doing wrong? But I kinda live old fashion when it comes to dating a man. I just don't believe that I should settle for a mediocre man. I'm not a mediocre woman...I am one of those women can smell bullish from a mile away. It's not even the status of a man.
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Yep you aint doin a thing wrong and don't think something is wrong with you. I have seen the effects of a young lady really being an outstanding woman but misunderstanding why she aint have men flockin like some lower class chicks. It caused some regrettable things to happen. In fact I sent that story above to her for encouragement.
 
LadyLuck13 said:
:nod: 2 thumbs up to that dswac!! :tup: :tup: I sometimes wonder, because I'm 22 years old, been out of college 1 year now, live on my own, pay all my bills, and I believe I'm a beustiful person (inside & out), and no CHIRENS, what am I doing wrong?
Absolutely nothing. Just not that time. Enjoy not having that relationship responsibility. When you get it, you'll be the one who probably won't have it backfire.
But I kinda live old fashion when it comes to dating a man. I just don't believe that I should settle for a mediocre man. I'm not a mediocre woman...I am one of those women can smell bullish from a mile away. It's not even the status of a man.
You're not alone. Also, the intimidation factor is a mutha for some cats. If you know a chic's on point like whoa then you'd want to be to so you can compliment her. You don't want to bring her down. Good people attract good people. Keep doing you.

So Justin, why should we (women) have ANY tolerance for bullish? Men don't settle for a mediocre woman. Men end up with that woman who didn't give out quick, carries herself well, and other qualities follow.
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LadyLuck13 said:
I agree smalls....It's not in their nature to think detailed. Women are more apt to this characteristic because we take care of children, do most of the house duties, pay the bills; hell, we basically mentally tend to a family scheduele, basically hold the family together (to a certain extent). Men are more more prone to paying attention to the "ball game." :p Peep the following example:

ex: "Oooh! Did you see that man? He jumped about 5ft in the air, left foot in front of right turned around and did a 360 before slamming the ball in the basket with his right hand!"

Sorry, fellas, you know it's true! :p
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I had this same conversation with a male friend of mine. My question was, "when do the dishes get washed, laundry get folded and floor get vaacumed if you sit in front of the tv for 2-3 hours at a time watching (whatever sport)?" His response was "during the commercials". I was speechless. :eek: Men want a clean house, hot food, good-smelling wife and well-behaved children - somebody help me with this!!!!
 
vertojsu said:
I had this same conversation with a male friend of mine. My question was, "when do the dishes get washed, laundry get folded and floor get vaacumed if you sit in front of the tv for 2-3 hours at a time watching (whatever sport)?" His response was "during the commercials". I was speechless. :eek: Men want a clean house, hot food, good-smelling wife and well-behaved children - somebody help me with this!!!!
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I'll take the good wife (good i.e. faithful) over the well-behaved children and hot food and a clean house. Why? I can clean up my own mess, and I do, AND I can cook for myself and I can buy my wife some good smelling stuff every now and then and my kids (whenever I have 'em) will be spanked and scared to know right from wrong and have an affinity for doing what's right. Now if the wife is not good-smelling because of hygeine then she's not MY wife. :upset: WASH YO ARSE!
 
lilC said:
I'll take the good wife (good i.e. faithful) over the well-behaved children and hot food and a clean house. Why? I can clean up my own mess, and I do, AND I can cook for myself and I can buy my wife some good smelling stuff every now and then and my kids (whenever I have 'em) will be spanked and scared to know right from wrong and have an affinity for doing what's right. Now if the wife is not good-smelling because of hygeine then she's not MY wife. :upset: WASH YO ARSE!
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You obviously are going to make a good hubby - however, what about the guy I described in my original post who is glued to the tv while having these expectations?
 
vertojsu said:
You obviously are going to make a good hubby - however, what about the guy I described in my original post who is glued to the tv while having these expectations?
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Well, for that dude, it IS possible to wash some dishes during commercials. I can't say that he wouldn't be able to find a great wife who is also a caretaker that he's probably looking for. It could be the compliment he needs. For example, if he's the "bread winner" there could be "bread fixer" out there that he'll run into. Or he could be the anomale (sp) that doesn't do a dayum thang but runs into good fortune and finds her and her good fortune would be to have someone to take care of to that extent. TV is great, I love it but I have a problem with standing dishes cuz my mama' has to do it. So whenever I'm home, I just do 'em and get them out of my sight. (Virgo, also) My old man is usually busy with something and he washes dishes every other day anyway. TV won't make kids either....and I'll need a wife who's VERY interested in making kids or at least the act that causes you to make kids. This is something we both should be able to share and be addicted to between one another.
 
lilC said:
Now if the wife is not good-smelling because of hygeine then she's not MY wife. :upset: WASH YO ARSE!
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ROTF @ lilc :rolly: - really, what I meant was that she had time to come in from work, freshen up and be ready for whatever. If she was swamped with having to do all those household things, she might not feel like taking a nice shower and giving her man some good loving. I cannot wait to meet you - you are a real piece of work...
 
vertojsu said:
ROTF @ lilc :rolly: - really, what I meant was that she had time to come in from work, freshen up and be ready for whatever. If she was swamped with having to do all those household things, she might not feel like taking a nice shower and giving her man some good loving. I cannot wait to meet you - you are a real piece of work...
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Oh. My bad. Meet me? Que? :confused: IF you're talking about the reunion then no can do this summer. Unless I win that lotto, it's all about saving for the fall. I'm beginning that long run to gradiation and tuition is going up. :swink:
 
vertojsu said:
You obviously are going to make a good hubby - however, what about the guy I described in my original post who is glued to the tv while having these expectations?
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That's only 3 or 4 hours on any given day (most likely Sunday). Why can't he help during the other times of the day or on other days? Sunday afternoon in the fall is for football watching...the rest of the day (morning-Church, evening-family) is enough. We like to relax to the sounds of John Madded, Joe Buck, Michael Irvin, etc...LOL.
 
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