3. And there is nothing wrong with him desiring social acceptance. That's part of the reason he came out in the first place. It is part of the reason why anyone backs or promotes any cause or issue.
This has been the very foundation of my argument from day 1, and is something members of the LGBT community fail to understand. Social acceptance is a two way street. Part of being accepted in society is to accept that fact that everyone isn't going to accept you for what or who you are. It doesn't matter if you are gay, straight, black, white, fat or skinny. Someone, somewhere, is not going to like you or accept you for whatever reason. All one can do is to continue doing what he/she does.