'You're going to die with me.' SMH


We need to required people to apply for the right to have kids.

Man, I been saying that for years now! It's a damn shame, but if you want to cut hair, drive a car, or sell peanuts on the sidewalk you got to get a license! But not to breed! The Chinese are right on that tangent.
 
SUJagFan: What is the difference in European's attitude toward cheating than black folk? Europeans kill themselves or their spouses all the time about infidelity, so where did you get that grand idea from?

Getting back to the young woman and her children. This is another sad case of a person being pushed over the top by too much stress and life's problems. She just did not see any way out of a bad situation. I am not making excuses about what she did, but men really need to step up to the plate when it comes to their kids and family. Women should not always have to bear the burden of raising children, working, and trying to juggle school and everything else that comes their way. We have to do better as a people.

I'm glad I read a few other threads before I responded to you. I keep forgetting you're a female and keep assuming you're an Alpha. I was about to toy with you like a cat toys with a mouse before he kills it. :)

To answer your question, I've read several articles over the years that suggest Europeans tend to have rather liberal attitudes toward infidelity. I've linked a few examples below:

Monogramy bores me terribly

Sex and Prague

How infidelity has become accepted and even expected in Russia.

:)
 



http://www.nydailynews.com/news/ny_...rsuicide_in_hudson_river_blames_himself_.html

The suicidal mom who drove her family van into the Hudson River posted a terrifying Facebook warning just 30 minutes before killing herself and her three children.

"I'm so sorry everyone forgive me please for what I'm gonna do.... This Is It!!!!" Lashanda Armstrong wrote from her Blackberry shortly before the Tuesday night tragedy.

The chilling account appeared on MidHudsonNews.com, which gained access to the dead woman's Facebook page. Armstrong's friends filled the page with prayers and wishes for peace after her death.

The message appeared at 7:13 p.m., and Armstrong and her kids were gone from her Newburgh apartment when police arrived to probe a domestic dispute at 7:43 p.m., the web site reported.

Puting it on FB tells me she wasn't completely sure about the decision. She might've planned it...but, she needed someone to step in and, atleast, talk to her. Either folks were ignoring her hints...or, she didn't try hard enough to seek help. Im leaning towa itrds the latter.
 
Worst part is she actually updated her facebook page right before it happened saying "forgive me for what im about to do, its time."
 
Worst part is she actually updated her facebook page right before it happened saying "forgive me for what im about to do, its time."

It's a LOT of her type running around here male and female alike:

"forgive me for what im about to do, as i bust out his/her car windows"
"forgive me for what im about to do, as i roll up on her/his job and act an ass in public"
"forgive me for what im about to do, as i flatten his/her car tires"
"forgive me for what im about to do, as i key her/his car"
"forgive me for what im about to do, as i call his/her cell phone 30+ times in one hour demanding that she/he hear me cussing and acting an ass" lol
"forgive me for what im about to do, as i send 200 cajillion txts that he/she hasn't responded to yet"
"forgive me for what im about to do, as i ride all over the country looking for him/her"
"forgive me for what im about to do, as i RAISE my voice in cursing to get a point across to you"
"forgive me for what im about to do, as i try to FORCE you to ANSWER to me, like you're some runaway slave/child..."
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Stupid muthafukkas, the lot of them. (thinking back on those 2 black guys in Arlington who recently murdered those black women and 1 17 y/o daughter :smh: )

*also thinking back on my ex- or any female since who I'd put in their place when they'd intimate some of that stupid behavior*
 
These two families need to come together for the surviving 10 year old son. Even though the boy is not his biological son...he needs the adults around him to act like adults. Yes, the father is mourning that's why he needs people around him that can think clearly and make decisions not based on anger.

http://www.nydailynews.com/ny_local/2011/04/26/2011-04-26_shame_on_them.html

That's what happened at the funeral of Landon, Lance and Lainaina Pierre, who died with their 25-year-old mother, Lashanda Armstrong, when she drove them all into the Hudson in a suicide plunge on April 12.

Fury erupted after the children's father, Jean Pierre, gave police a list of 80 people who should be allowed into the service at the Alphonso E. Brown Funeral Home in Spring Valley, Rockland County.

Only 18 of the invited mourners were members of Armstrong's family.

"Enough is enough!" shouted Gwendolen Green, 48, a nurse and Armstrong cousin whose son was blocked from entering.

"This side of the family matters, too! You know it's wrong!"

Green objected to the display of grief shown by Pierre, who had quarreled with Armstrong on the night of the tragedy over his philandering and an order of protection she'd gotten against him.

"He's carrying on so [much] in there, screaming and hollering. The guilt is filling him up," said Green, who wore photo-buttons of the children.

"Treat the mother right! Don't abuse! Pay child support! You're supposed to take care of people when they're alive!"

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They were supposed to be buried with their mother in another cemetery last Thursday, but Pierre, 26, stopped that plan at the last minute, decreeing they should not be buried with the woman who killed them.

Armstrong's 10-year-old son, Lashaun Armstrong, who escaped the vehicle by swimming into the frigid waters, attended his mother's funeral. He stayed home with an aunt yesterday, relatives said, to spare him more pain.

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Armstrong seemed to be looking out for her kids when she sought the order of protection, after little Lance wandered into the snow after Pierre left him alone, supposedly so he could hook up with another woman.
 
These two families need to come together for the surviving 10 year old son.

I disagree. The guys family needs to segregate itself from the murderer's (dead mother) family permanently. They have nothing "shared" between them now, other than to say they ONCE had a family connection via those 3 little slain angels. As for the 10 y/o, he needs to be w/ his <b>biological father</b>, if available. Otherwise, the biological's fam and his mother's fam can fight it out in court as to who's most suited to rear him. He's not the responsibility of the non-biological father or his family. :tup:

As for the writeup on the display @ the funeral of dude's slain children, it's his right to dictate who can be present. If he didn't want the murdering woman's family there, he had a right to keep them from it. But I do understand the emotionalism from the murderer's side of the family regarding their small slain relatives. :tup:
 
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