The Founder
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So my wife, my mother, and I were out to dinner on Saturday. I notice this little waitress kept looking back at me. She was waiting on other tables in the area. One of the things that I do always is after I touch the menu and order I go wash my hands. All types of hands have been on it.
Well when I leave the bathroom I see the waitress and I purposely walk in another direction.
Mind you the chick is fine. LOL....I had to put that bit in there. Yea I looked....LOL
While she was waiting on a table of ladies she makes the statement "It's some handsome ass married men in here today that I hope don't mind risking it all and some are in close proximity." One of the other women stated "it sure is." All of these were black women. So later my wife gets up to go to the bathroom and my mother was on her cell talking to a friend. The waitress walks by our table, looks dead at me and says "We were talking about you." The other women said "We sure were."
Now I have been hit on since I have been married by women but it was when I was alone.
When I say I felt uncomfortable as hell I was uncomfortable. To me it was not a laughing matter because for all they knew my mom could have been my wife's mother. That situation could have gone left very quickly or caused problems in my marriage.
My response was a simple "thank you." I didn't want to have a discussion.
The blessing was while my wife was in the restroom the waiter brought my check and I paid. When my wife was coming to the table, my mother and I were leaving so we didn't have to return to the area.
Well when I leave the bathroom I see the waitress and I purposely walk in another direction.
Mind you the chick is fine. LOL....I had to put that bit in there. Yea I looked....LOL
While she was waiting on a table of ladies she makes the statement "It's some handsome ass married men in here today that I hope don't mind risking it all and some are in close proximity." One of the other women stated "it sure is." All of these were black women. So later my wife gets up to go to the bathroom and my mother was on her cell talking to a friend. The waitress walks by our table, looks dead at me and says "We were talking about you." The other women said "We sure were."
Now I have been hit on since I have been married by women but it was when I was alone.
When I say I felt uncomfortable as hell I was uncomfortable. To me it was not a laughing matter because for all they knew my mom could have been my wife's mother. That situation could have gone left very quickly or caused problems in my marriage.
My response was a simple "thank you." I didn't want to have a discussion.
The blessing was while my wife was in the restroom the waiter brought my check and I paid. When my wife was coming to the table, my mother and I were leaving so we didn't have to return to the area.