Why Ruben Studdard is the Smartest Man Alive


jstate83 said:
I have said that any man with money who get married without a pre-nup is a fool. RUBEN is nobodys fool. He even got the damm ring back. :lmao: :bowdown:

Get sick of gold-digging women thinking they are owed half of a mans life work just because she got a damm ring. Byotch didn't do anything to earn a dime and wanted a lifetime of Bentleys and mansions at his expense................:lol:
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As a woman, I wouldn't have put it exactly like that, but as a hard working individual, I agree. It's refreshing to see a man, especially a Black brother, who wasn't hung out to dry by a sistah who claimed to have "loved" him. Hopefully a lot more people, especially our Black brothers, will use reason and sense and have a good pre-nup in place. This goes for anyone, rich or not, but like SUJagFan said, if you have money or valuable assets, please consider a pre-nup.

With all this mess going on with our Black men, I ain't mad at Reuben Studdard and glad he came out "unscathed".
 
jstate83 said:
Shat!! :lol:

The average working joe is the one that need a pre-nup the most. You making say $50K and you get divorced. Once they snatch your house from under you, make the man pay the mnortage, plus alimony and child support if any kids are in the picture, you will be lucky to bring home enough to feed yourself. That don't take into account if the woman go back and request more in a fit of anger like we all know they do in a lot of cases.

A rich mofo can absorb the blow. The average Joe can't. The average Joe need a pre-nup that say leave and take what you came with and we go our seperate ways. :lol:
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True. I've been through that. Divorce is a dirty business.

But, isn't a pre-nup designed to protect what a person brought into the marriage?

If someone is not bringing anything substantial into the marriage other than a job, a mortgage and a car note, what's the point? There's nothing to protect.
 



Being realistic, at this point in my life, we are both in the same boat. We have similar salaries, bot have Master's Degrees and both have about the same amount of student loan debt. I plan to have the conversation but I don't feel the NEED at the moment for a prenuptial agreement. I honestly feel like we are going into this as equals but I am no dummy. I see the 60% divorce rate and realize that things happen. I try to be a logic driven person.
 
jsupop33 said:
Being realistic, at this point in my life, we are both in the same boat. We have similar salaries, bot have Master's Degrees and both have about the same amount of student loan debt. I plan to have the conversation but I don't feel the NEED at the moment for a prenuptial agreement. I honestly feel like we are going into this as equals but I am no dummy. I see the 60% divorce rate and realize that things happen. I try to be a logic driven person.
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What would your prenuptial agreement say?

I think you all are like most young couples. Going into marriage fairly equally. Any wealth built during the marriage would be split equally in a divorce anyway, right?

So, I guess what I'm trying to figure out is what things would you all need a contract for?
 
SUJagFan said:
What would your prenuptial agreement say?

I think you all are like most young couples. Going into marriage fairly equally. Any wealth built during the marriage would be split equally in a divorce anyway, right?

So, I guess what I'm trying to figure out is what things would you all need a contract for?
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Thank you. Maybe they're going to split the kids or something? :noidea:

Pops, you good man. Dont focus on the negative. Enjoy what you have man.
 
SUJagFan said:
What would your prenuptial agreement say?

I think you all are like most young couples. Going into marriage fairly equally. Any wealth built during the marriage would be split equally in a divorce anyway, right?

So, I guess what I'm trying to figure out is what things would you all need a contract for?
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I just said I don't see the NEED at this point.
 
jsupop33 said:
Like 79, I plan to discuss it. Being honest, it is not a requirement for us to get a pre-nup before marriage but I atleast want to honestly sit down and have a conversation about it.
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Your woman ain't having it. Save the conversation. :lmao: :lmao:
 
Look Pops, just be realistic about marriage and you will be good. Marvin Cease has a record called, "The Btych gets it all". Listen to it and you will understand, that thang on a woman is a powerful tool. It always wins, this is the one exception to the rule. It is hard to out slick a woman. That is why the husband just dies first, to get it over with.
 
I ain't signing no damn pre-nup. Now, we can discuss estate planning...which kid gets what and what the spouse had left in the deal...but ain't gone be no pre-nupping over here. I can do good bymyself...share or keep yo shat...Nah!

Where Reuben live? He got too much money floating around...he needs some help spending it...:lol:
 
chocalate_topaz said:
I ain't signing no damn pre-nup. Now, we can discuss estate planning...which kid gets what and what the spouse had left in the deal...but ain't gone be no pre-nupping over here. I can do good bymyself...share or keep yo shat...Nah!

Where Reuben live? He got too much money floating around...he needs some help spending it...:lol:
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No he don't.....
 
chocalate_topaz said:
I ain't signing no damn pre-nup. Now, we can discuss estate planning...which kid gets what and what the spouse had left in the deal...but ain't gone be no pre-nupping over here. I can do good bymyself...share or keep yo shat...Nah!

Where Reuben live? He got too much money floating around...he needs some help spending it...:lol:
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You'll sign a pre-nup if I tell you to sign a pre-nup.

Any woman who truly loves me and intends to stay with me wouldn't have a problem with me keeping what I bring into the relationship.

This "I ain't signing no damn pre-nup" mentality shows an ulterior motive and suggests that your intentions are not pure.

However, I know you'll do as you're told because you're a good woman. Right, CT? :)
 
chocalate_topaz said:
Anything past basic necessities is too much money floating around for a man...Let me hush telling womanlaw...:lol:
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Womanlaw?

Nah. That's Pimping 101.

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Had ole girl not gone to Ray Ray and 'em for an attorney reference she might would have gotten something...did anyone notice that she only asked for 2k on attorney's fees...that tells me right there that he works out of his kitchen table:smh:
 
SUJagFan said:
You'll sign a pre-nup if I tell you to sign a pre-nup.
Any woman who truly loves me and intends to stay with me wouldn't have a problem with me keeping what I bring into the relationship.

This "I ain't signing no damn pre-nup" mentality shows an ulterior motive and suggests that your intentions are not pure.

However, I know you'll do as you're told because you're a good woman. Right, CT? :)
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HOLD UP! WAIT A DAYAMAN MINUTE! CT ain't gonna be handled like no straight off the truck chick whose middle name is Um Foo Foo! Oh hell naw! Nah, if I LET you keep some spending money, you'd best be happy. Cause if I had ulterior motives, won't be nothing/naything/not shat! left for a chap with your DNA, heah?

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DallasCowboyGirl said:
Had ole girl not gone to Ray Ray and 'em for an attorney reference she might would have gotten something...did anyone notice that she only asked for 2k on attorney's fees...that tells me right there that he works out of his kitchen table:smh:
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Aye Boo, they say the kind of service you get is the kind you pay for. :emlaugh:
 
chocalate_topaz said:
HOLD UP! WAIT A DAYAMAN MINUTE! CT ain't gonna be handled like no straight off the truck chick whose middle name is Um Foo Foo! Oh hell naw! Nah, if I LET you keep some spending money, you'd best be happy. Cause if I had ulterior motives, won't be nothing/naything/not shat! left for a chap with your DNA, heah?

Oh and....
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:lmao:

Please tell me you would not resort to being a NASTY GIRL.....take the dude condom to bathroom...turn it inside out and put back in you....:emlaugh:
 
The Founder said:
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Please tell me you would not resort to being a NASTY GIRL.....take the dude condom to bathroom...turn it inside out and put back in you....:emlaugh:
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No No No...I am smart enough to realize that having a kid to keep Rueben on Reuben money doesn't really put me ahead. Nix the kid thought! :**shudder** I was thinking more of a...skillset... to employ...:teleport:
 
chocalate_topaz said:
HOLD UP! WAIT A DAYAMAN MINUTE! CT ain't gonna be handled like no straight off the truck chick whose middle name is Um Foo Foo! Oh hell naw! Nah, if I LET you keep some spending money, you'd best be happy. Cause if I had ulterior motives, won't be nothing/naything/not shat! left for a chap with your DNA, heah?

Oh and....
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:)

Seriously, though.

If the relationship reaches the point to where a wealthy man is considering marriage, the prenuptial conversation is a normal part of the process. Or should be. I wouldn't be ASKING a woman anything. I would be TELLING her that's what's going to happen if she walks down the aisle with me. Wouldn't be asking for her opinion. How she feels. None of that.

The conversation would occur at some point in the serious relationship stage. When she agreed, I'd considering buying a ring, proposing and planning a wedding. If she decided she wanted to go the "I ain't signing no damn pre-nup" route, then I'd smile to myself, remove her from the potential spouse list and continue to get my milk for free until one of us got tired.

Simple.

:)

What if it were our wealthy son who was planning to get married and faced the "I ain't signing a damn pre-nup" woman? What would your advice to him be?
 
SUJagFan said:
:)

Seriously, though.

If the relationship reaches the point to where a wealthy man is considering marriage, the prenuptial conversation is a normal part of the process. Or should be. I wouldn't be ASKING a woman anything. I would be TELLING her that's what's going to happen if she walks down the aisle with me. Wouldn't be asking for her opinion. How she feels. None of that.

The conversation would occur at some point in the serious relationship stage. When she agreed, I'd considering buying a ring, proposing and planning a wedding. If she decided she wanted to go the "I ain't signing no damn pre-nup" route, then I'd smile to myself, remove her from the potential spouse list and continue to get my milk for free until one of us got tired.

Simple.

:)

What if it were our wealthy son who was planning to get married and faced the "I ain't signing a damn pre-nup" woman? What would your advice to him be?
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Don't come with that pre-nup stuff...the milk faucet is shut off! Buy it from Shequisha down the road. And I have a son who will have assets and will tell him to choose slowly and wisely and plan to stay in that thing. Oh, and get them while he is broke.
 
chocalate_topaz said:
No No No...I am smart enough to realize that having a kid to keep Rueben on Reuben money doesn't really put me ahead. Nix the kid thought! :**shudder** I was thinking more of a...skillset... to employ...:teleport:
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I told my girl I will need a pre-nup and she recited my account numbers...notice I said an "s".....I immediately thought of you CT....
 
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