Why do some of you women do this?


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Panther88

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Seriously. No bs'ing. :|

Why is it so F'Ning painful lol for you to TELL an ADULT male how YOU feel about him? :confused: Why does that pride or fear thing kick in and while whispering "no," you listen and let whatever objective it was that you had move on to another?

Why do some of you do this? :shame: Now that I'm elder :D, I don't understand this. :smh:
 



Dr. Sweet NUPE said:
Panthro women have been hurt so much that they do not want to give up that security.
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Would rather play a "game" w/ a mental adult male rather than SAY what your actions/eyes are saying? :confused: :emlaugh:

I understand the "security" deal. But "security" will get you leaning on a brotha', such as myself :hat:, where he has to listen to you gripe about why you so damn lonely @ the ripe old age of 36... :retard:.... 33.... :retard: .... 29.... :retard: 40 :what:.... :retard:

I'm not saying go "chase" a negro. Just make your intentions known. Nothing wrong w/ that. I think. :confused:
 
Panthro said:
Would rather play a "game" w/ a mental adult male rather than SAY what your actions/eyes are saying? :confused: :emlaugh:

I understand the "security" deal. But "security" will get you leaning on a brotha', such as myself :hat:, where he has to listen to you gripe about why you so damn lonely @ the ripe old age of 36... :retard:.... 33.... :retard: .... 29.... :retard: 40 :what:.... :retard:

I'm not saying go "chase" a negro. Just make your intentions known. Nothing wrong w/ that. I think. :confused:
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Sometimes that's easier said than done. I don't advocate playing games, but I don't always let my feelings be known either. The # 1 reason I have kept silent on my feelings in the past is fear of running someone off. Some people think when you put your feelings out there that the next words out of your mouth will be "when you gonna marry me". Another reason may be fear that the feelings aren't mutual or that they aren't as strong.
 
Panthro said:
Why is it so F'Ning painful lol for you to TELL an ADULT male how YOU feel about him?
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Can't relate. Every man I've ever dealt with KNEW how I felt and what I wanted from the relationship (be it something serious or just physical). I didn't play games and never bit my tongue.
 
Panthro said:
I'm not saying go "chase" a negro. Just make your intentions known. Nothing wrong w/ that. I think. :confused:
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Okay P~, I'll say it. I've been wanting to say this for awhile to you. Now I'm finally ready to say it....... :uhoh: *taking a deep breath*
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lump sum you got from your previous job! :p :what: :hat: ;) :lol:
 
Panthro the only answer is they crazy man. Show me a woman and I'll show you a problem. I guess we got two choices deal with it or move on. That's why I can never understand dudes who chase other dudes wives. Why would I want someone elses problem. You may think the grass is greener on the other side , but it's not. You just get a new set of problems. That's why I just act crazy with them. Two crazy people make one crazy couple.
 
Shamocha said:
Sometimes that's easier said than done. I don't advocate playing games, but I don't always let my feelings be known either. The # 1 reason I have kept silent on my feelings in the past is fear of running someone off. Some people think when you put your feelings out there that the next words out of your mouth will be "when you gonna marry me". Another reason may be fear that the feelings aren't mutual or that they aren't as strong.
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But dammit Schaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa-moke! :| If you want Panthro to be yo' friend-guy-serious, you need to let Panthro know it! Don't let me see it in your eyes... that sparkle... that gleam. :| Cuz then I'll know, and It'll make me not wanna' have too much of anything to do w/ you because I'll feel betrayed. :|
 
Panthro said:
Seriously. No bs'ing. :|

Why is it so F'Ning painful lol for you to TELL an ADULT male how YOU feel about him? :confused: Why does that pride or fear thing kick in and while whispering "no," you listen and let whatever objective it was that you had move on to another?

Why do some of you do this? :shame: Now that I'm elder :D, I don't understand this. :smh:
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It goes both ways. It ain't just the womenfolks. Trust me.:nod:
 
SLT said:
Okay P~, I'll say it. I've been wanting to say this for awhile to you. Now I'm finally ready to say it....... :uhoh: *taking a deep breath*
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lump sum you got from your previous job! :p :what: :hat: ;) :lol:
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:emlaugh: Man..... lol

How about I offer a piece of Panthro? :uhoh:

I'mma git'chew. Send hubby out of town one w/e or give him some dallas cowboys tix that I'mma receive in a few. :D
 
chocalate_topaz said:
It goes both ways. It ain't just the womenfolks. Trust me.:nod:
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Gott dayamit Cee-Tee! :slap: We men ain't shy about letting our feelings/wants/desires being known. :emlaugh:
 
I believe both genders are equally crazy. HITS the crazy stuff I have done to women, and the things my sister has told me about men.
 
Dude,

I done tried to told you already. Why would you try to be with someone that is still involved in the first place. You aren't making her situation better by trying to push her your direction. Are you that impatient? Let her make up her mind that she is done with her relationship that she is in and then you can get involved. But honestly, what makes you think the same thing can't happen to you once she grows tired or find that you do things that she doesn't agree with.

Also, if she was sneaking around with you. Have you given that any thought as relates to the situation you are about to put yourself in? Sometimes our eyes get too big to look at things for what they are. When you feel that happening. It's time to step back and rethink the situation. She may have second thoughts about your situation due to any number of things

For example. If Kema wants to leave me. All I can do is try to find out what the problem is, try to resolve it, and if it can't be resolved. Then let her do what she has to do. It would be her decision to leave our marriage and if what she thought was better (Grass Greener) isn't, then whoever that person is will catch the wrath of a woman. Because if it's over because of outside influences with me. It's done! Once you sign the dotted line that's it!

Give whoever you are dealing with the space to think. She more than likely already knows what she wants to do, anyway. Your pushing will not help in her decision. It may even hinder what you want in the outcome. But to each his/her own.
 



Panthro said:
Gott dayamit Cee-Tee! :slap: We men ain't shy about letting our feelings/wants/desires being known. :emlaugh:
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Au contraire, my Brotha. Some of y'all still can't get your mouth/actions to work in sync with your mind.
 
Panthro said:
But dammit Schaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa-moke! :| If you want Panthro to be yo' friend-guy-serious, you need to let Panthro know it! Don't let me see it in your eyes... that sparkle... that gleam. :| Cuz then I'll know, and It'll make me not wanna' have too much of anything to do w/ you because I'll feel betrayed. :|
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Betrayed is strong. What if it is someone who has already said that isn't what they want? Then its just a matter of respecting their wishes. Generally when I meet a man I will tell them that I'm looking for a relationship or a friend with benefits...whatever. There has only been 2 times that I've actually developed feelings for a FRIEND. One friend I didn't tell until yrs later and the other friend I did tell and it sparked a relationship. The reason I didn't tell the 1st friend was because I was afraid if we had a relationship and broke up then I would lose a man and a great friend at the same time. I was willing to forget about those feelings and focus on the friendship because I thought it was more important.
 
chocalate_topaz said:
Au contraire, my Brotha. Some of y'all still can't get your mouth/actions to work in sync with your mind.
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It's because we have two brains. One just has more will power then the other. That's why the three hits and you out rule is in place. Baseball ain't Americas favorite past time for nothing.
 
CEE DOG said:
Panthro the only answer is they crazy man. Show me a woman and I'll show you a problem. I guess we got two choices deal with it or move on. That's why I can never understand dudes who chase other dudes wives. Why would I want someone elses problem. You may think the grass is greener on the other side , but it's not. You just get a new set of problems. That's why I just act crazy with them. Two crazy people make one crazy couple.
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Dude we was thinking the same thing. You just put it a little different thanwhat I was saying. I was trying to be a little tactful. :lol:
 
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Mike said:
Dude,

Why would you try to be with someone that is still involved in the first place. Man if you sneaking around with her while she's with someone else, then think about what she might do to you.

Also, if she was sneaking around with you. Have you given that any thought as relates to the situation you are about to put yourself in? Man tell me about it. Some people are never happy.

Give whoever you are dealing with the space to think. She more than likely already knows what she wants to do, anyway. Your pushing will not help in her decision. It may even hinder what you want in the outcome. But to each his/her own. Panthro I have a certain female that I care for deeply in short time because of her passion, her woman hood, her trust and her honesty. Yet, she has a lot to think about. As men get older it's one thing we have to develop which is patience. Women want to fall in love with their friend. Yea sex can be a part of it but I have to say...falling in love with a friend is a beautiul thing. All those little things just don't matter.
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:lmao: @ ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.

U my hero Cee! :bowdown:

What made me ask this question was because of something that occurred last Saturday. lol I LITERALLY made these 2 young ladies (age: 33 and 36) <b>stand in the hot ass dallas sun from 1pm-~4:30/40ish and small talk</b>. :emlaugh: I knew damn well that they were diggin' on my ugly ass during the previous meeting and one of them WANTED to step to the forefront and I'm sure that ONE of them THOUGHT I'd ask for somebody's #. :retard: Ennnnnnnngh! Wrong answer. They even waited for me to get on my bike and leave. And, as I was leaving that meeting location, I sped off like a mofo so that neither of them would try to stop me @ one of the red lights leaving downtown to "smalltalk some mo'" :retard:.

They shorts/shirts were sweating like crazy but they REFUSED to step forward and let their real intentions be known let alone get in their vehicle and just... drive off. Hell, they didn't wanna' talk about "undergrad"/"grad school"/family/friends/chillunz/blahzey in 105 degree heat IN the sun. :retard: They wanted to see if I would ask one of'em out on a date.
 
Mike said:
Dude we was thinking the same thing. You just put it a little different thanwhat I was saying. I was trying to be a little tactful. :lol:
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You know you have to break it down for these people on this board. They got to much education. :lol:
 
I'm not going to call women crazy...they just confused as HELL. Yet, it's up to us to stop the confusion...yet the ball bounces back to them to be accpeting of us trying to stop the confusion...which...leads back to confusion.
 
Fortitude said:
Iz somebody tryna stealz u away from me, P~? I'll cut 'em! :saw:
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Please. :rolleyes: There's enough of me to go around. :emlaugh:

I'm yours babey. I belong to youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu. :kiss:
 
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