Why did you divorce or seperate?

[buckwheat]

In some of the discussion boards, I see where there are a lot of people that are either seperated or divorced. I'm still fairly new in the marriage game and look forward to being with my wife 'until death do us part'. Can your significant other be that bad that you would decide to leave?

 

[Fortitude]

Irreconcilable differences.

 

[Vinita]

^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

[buckwheat]

OK, Meaning?

 

[Fortitude]

We couldn't agree.

 

[Vinita]

OK, Meaning?

We had differences that were irreconcilable.

 

[buckwheat]

Fortitude, me and my wife disagree on a lot of things but we don't leave.

 

[Taylor-Made'90]

I rooted for Oklahoma and she rooted for Texas.... She got mad and divorced me because OU kept beating Texas......



Irreconcilable differences..... :tup::tup:

 

[Fortitude]

Fortitude, me and my wife disagree on a lot of things but we don't leave.

That's good.

 

[buckwheat]

Fortitude and others, before you got married didn't you already know some of the differences that you both had? Just asking!

 

[MsJag4Jag]

infidelity
finances seems to be number one
abuse

I can't think of much else.

 

[MsJag4Jag]

drug/alcohol abuse...

absenteeism

As some people say..."they just aint happy..."

 

[Tony]

:cry:

 

[buckwheat]

J4J, were you cheating?

 

[Tony]

J4J, were you cheating?

gifted you are.

 

[Taylor-Made'90]

Fortitude and others, before you got married didn't you already know some of the differences that you both had? Just asking!

There are many issues that come-up during a marriage that can't be foreseen... Interpersonal differences ofter arise out of those unforeseen issues/obstacles/life changes.

It's better to recognize a failed relationship and end it, than to remain in it and have it fester..... (like a infected wound).....

 

[MsJag4Jag]

J4J, were you cheating?

Naw. Aint divorced either.

 

[Blacknbengal]

Just couldnt take it anymore. Everything was bad......conversation, food, sex, etc...

 

[Tony]

Just couldnt take it anymore. Everything was bad......conversation, food, sex, etc...

Damn! You said the coversation & even the food was bad.
:lmao:

 

[Vinita]

gifted you are.

WTF is this supposed to mean?

 

[Tony]

WTF is this supposed to mean?

Gifted
adj : showing a natural aptitude for something

 

[Vinita]

In the context of the conversation, J4J made a comment, buckwheat asked if she were cheating, and, based on HIS comment, you inferred that he was gifted.

WHY would you make that comment about HIM, based on his question to HER?

 

[Tony]

In the context of the conversation, J4J made a comment, buckwheat asked if she were cheating, and, based on HIS comment, you inferred that he was gifted.

WHY would you make that comment about HIM, based on his question to HER?

Ah :idea: My Head hurts?

 

[Fortitude]

No two people are alike

Fortitude and others, before you got married didn't you already know some of the differences that you both had? Just asking!

It ain't about "knowing" some of the differences; it's about being able to work thru them.

 

[SONNY]

Fortitude, me and my wife disagree on a lot of things but we don't leave.

Frat are you trying to tell us something?????


Did you get my resume?