Tony, can you dissect this please.


CriTAUcal said:
Maybe so, but that goes both ways. There are some beautiful sistas (inside and out) on here, too.
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I know it is, straight up
But here’s the thing;

Either they’re Still pining over some dude who don’t even know how to love

So hurt and suspicious, from the past that if a dude just says “helloâ€
She immediately feels like some kinda game for the panties is afoot.

Or she’s so accomplished that her head can’t fit in a stadium.
And when a dude displays that he’s just as intelligent, instead of seeing that as
compatibility she sees it as being competitive which quickly turns to being
combative

Or she just is accustomed to only one type of brother

Or she just lacks the self confidence to say anything at all.

But hey obviously we all are benefitting somehow,
because we keep loggin’ in
 



Tony said:
I know it is, straight up
But here’s the thing;

Either they’re Still pining over some dude who don’t even know how to love

So hurt and suspicious, from the past that if a dude just says “hello”
She immediately feels like some kinda game for the panties is afoot.

Or she’s so accomplished that her head can’t fit in a stadium.
And when a dude displays that he’s just as intelligent, instead of seeing that as
compatibility she sees it as being competitive which quickly turns to being
combative

Or she just is accustomed to only one type of brother

Or she just lacks the self confidence to say anything at all.

But hey obviously we all are benefitting somehow,
because we keep loggin’ in
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I can't deny any of those points. There are indeed women like that.
But you know I gotta say that there are men who are equally bad off as the women you've described.
 
CriTAUcal said:
I can't deny any of those points. There are indeed women like that.
But you know I gotta say that there are men who are equally bad off as the women you've described.
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Amen Roi. :tup: :tup: Those men "think" they have more game than entire Direct TV NFL and NBA packages.
 
CriTAUcal said:
I can't deny any of those points. There are indeed women like that.
But you know I gotta say that there are men who are equally bad off as the women you've described.
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Yeah, you are correct, some of us brothers are so
Ill equipped to truly straight up and down love a woman.

Most of us learned that if we pay the bills, and
put food on the table, that was all we needed to do.

Alot of us are just now learning about the other side
Of body stimulation

But if you look good to us we gone step to ya.

And we seem to always ask you to be understanding and meet us
Too far outside yourself alot of the times :shame:

But we try...
 
Tony said:
Yeah, you are correct, some of us brothers are so
Ill equipped to truly straight up and down love a woman.

Most of us learned that if we pay the bills, and
put food on the table, that was all we needed to do.

Alot of us are just now learning about the other side
Of body stimulation

But if you look good to us we gone step to ya.

And we seem to always ask you to be understanding and meet us
Too far outside yourself alot of the times :shame:

But we try...
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You're right. Both sexes have flaws and challenges.
It's blessing when we can really find someone who accepts us as we are and/or help us work through our downfalls. It ain't easy, especially in marriage.
 
CriTAUcal said:
You're right. Both sexes have flaws and challenges.
It's blessing when we can really find someone who accepts us as we are and/or help us work through our downfalls. It ain't easy, especially in marriage.
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right right

So what can a brother do if he's just talkin'
and being himself, but with every word
the female is just thinking it's all "game"?
 
I think when men and women realize and be honest we both like to get down, everything will be fine. Ladies want what we have and we ant what they have. Its just we get older and choose more wisely who we give and get it from, but we still like it.
 
right right

I mean let's be real
adult men & women should just say what's up.

We all got the equipment, let's be Real about
what we wanna do with it.


you wanna smash and grab?
you're looking for love?
I ain't feeling you?
I mean say what's up.

life is TOO SHORT.
 
Tony said:
right right

So what can a brother do if he's just talkin'
and being himself, but with every word
the female is just thinking it's all "game"?
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Don't try to convince her. If she can't take you at your word and believe you, she may not be the one. She may have trust issues. And if she has trust issues, that's code for run while you can. :lol:
 
Tony said:
right right

I mean let's be real
adult men & women should just say what's up.

We all got the equipment, let's be Real about
what we wanna do with it.


you wanna smash and grab?
you're looking for love?
I ain't feeling you?
I mean say what's up.

life is TOO SHORT.
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That's how it SHOULD be. And that's how it's been with me. I'm 'gon be upfront, and I'm gonna ask upfront what you want from me. I don't like wasting folks' time, and I certainly don't like my time wasted.
 
CriTAUcal said:
That's how it SHOULD be. And that's how it's been with me. I'm 'gon be upfront, and I'm gonna ask upfront what you want from me. I don't like wasting folks' time, and I certainly don't like my time wasted.
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ok and if that dude says "I want that azz" what chew gone say?
 



Tony said:
what I'm seeing is that
unless a man has truly fallen for a woman,
Believes in having a traditional family
religious,
or just need a place to stay.

<b><font size="6">He ain't tryin' to be Married</font></b>
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+1. :bowdown: :tup: :emlaugh: It's not for quite a few of us menfolk, speaking for self and those of my ilk. :)
 
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