The Winch had MJ Trailed By a P.I. for Four Years!


Juanita shouldn't be called names because she had MJ followed. MJ knew the consequences of infidelity. He is not a kid in High School. I don't feel sorry for him. He is a grown man, and he is or was a married man. She has every right to know where and what her husband is doing. Be it me, you or anyone else, we have to be careful about what we do. We all have to pay the cost for being the boss.

I just hope and pray that they do right by each other and not let this divorce cause a rift between them and their children. Divorces can be messy in normal situations, but when there are millions of dollars involved they can become triple messy.

Let's just continue to pray for all families that couples will takes their marriage vows more serious, and as families we will be more committed to do right toward each other. We have to learn to acknowledge that right is right, and wrong is wrong. We all make mistakes but we cannot pretend that it is okay to continue to make the same mistakes over and over. We are held accountable for the wrong that we do.

Let me throw this out to other men and women. Let's make a pack not to ever get involved with a married man or woman, or as far as that goes any person that is involved in a relationship with another person. People cannot cheat if they don't have anyone to cheat with. If you have been involved with one in the past, that is the past, ask God to forgive you and move on. This is my two cent worth on infidelity period..........
 
Originally posted by JSUII
Let me throw this out to other men and women. Let's make a pack not to ever get involved with a married man or woman, or as far as that goes any person that is involved in a relationship with another person. People cannot cheat if they don't have anyone to cheat with. If you have been involved with one in the past, that is the past, ask God to forgive you and move on. This is my two cent worth on infidelity period..........
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JSTUS, Gram Tigress, Nita, ATL, Tara, Dtown, etc . . .

Don't agree to this. Y'all know I'm married and the only woman I love is y'all.:D
 



He chased her...

When they first met she didn't like him and didn't want to get with him becasue he was a basketball player. He then chased her he was the one sitting at her job at the Chicago Sun-Times while she worked, sending her flowers the whole nine... She then gives in and they start to date... she gets pregant and he tries to run that is where the suit came in... she wanted a big wedding but he was like lets go right now... that is why they got married in Vegas...

Also for the last 2 years since he has been in Washington she has asked for him for a divorce and he has talked her out of it each time.. BUT when he deceide that he will play next year she gave up...


How do I know...

Well my grandfathers knows his bodyguard... and men will talk once they get drunk.


But also she has had a friend but from what I have heard has not sleep with him and will not until she is divorce.

BUT THIS IS ALL GRAPEVINE!!!
 
Check out the 25,000 square foot home.

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She should get 1/2 dayummitt!!!!

And he should get 1/2.

Why?

Because they're married.

When you're single...you're individuals.

You can decide what you want to share and not share.

If you're married, YOU ARE ONE! You took the vows. No one forced you. If you're not ready...don't do it. If you do...suffer the consequences or enjoy life together.

<FONT SIZE=6 COLOR=BLUE>YOU ARE NO LONGER TWO, BUT ONE!</FONT>So, why shouldn't everything be split equally. I don't give a fly'n flip how they hooked up. "They" made a decision to get married. No man is forced to get married. Neither is any woman. If you walk yo arse down that aisle...itz all on you. If you decide to have sex unprotected and your girl or some one you freak'n getz pregnant or gives you a disease. Itz all on you! Male or female.
Ain't no such thing as trap'n regardless.

<font size=4 color=red>For those of you that think there is a such thing as trap'n why the f***aren't you strap'n? </font>
Ain't nobody feel'n sorry for either one of yo arses!
If a grown ass man decides to have unprotected sex with a grown ass woman, without protecting himself and herself, deal with it and STFU!

There is no value you can put on a wife, husband, family or children. They should split and go they're separate ways. And another thing...what she does with the money is none of his dayum concern. IF you want to know where the money is going and want to have a say in how itz going to be spent. Keep your spoons out of other spoons and your puddins away from other spoons ya not married too. Then, you can talk to him and her about any dayum thing you want to!

If he died, how much would she get...all of it! So, WTF!
If she died, how much would he get...all of it! So why shouldn't they split it while they're living? Think about it!

If she were making 20,000 a year and he were making 50,000 a year, she should get half of what they have together. Mike isn't God. He's just like you and me. If you make dumb arse decisions...suffer with the smart arse consequences!

Guys always want to say...she's break'n me off with child support. Why are you paying child support? Why not?

The only thing I disagree with in all of this when it comes to married couples is the fact that the mother automatically gets custody of the children. I don't agree with that. Split them too!:D
That in itself would eliminate half the bull that men toss out about how much $ they have to dish out. You don't want to pay 5-hundred dollars a month in child support, but you want to take a thousand-dollars to the strip clubs and taking the women out you were seeing while you were married and wondering why judges make you pay so much. Some of those judges making the decisions are women ...and they know...yo arse just ain't gonna do right no way!:lmao: So, pay up and STFU!

Boy, I tell ya...folks can say what they want to about Oprah...that chic is smart azzz "L". Stay single Oprah ...stay single....:lol: Keep up the good work...itz work'n for ya.;)
 
I apologize, I had sed I was through with this topic

Please APW, let's not start on the pregnancy and child support issue...MEN can't comprehend that. They complain about the woman getting custody, but hell they azz don't want the damn kids anyway. isht, they don't even want to pay the money for monthly support.

Go figure.....:rolleyes:
 
Dtown,

What's up with the generalizations about what men can't comprehend or don't want??? I deal with this kinda crap on the daily. Y'all can't tell me jack I haven't already dealt with. BOTH sides can be trife.
 
I'm sure Juanita was getting her sha-bang-bang on also......

I'm glad the general concensus is considering that Juanita could'vehad her cake and eaten it too on the side. All folks are focusing on is what came out in the media. I bet if some of Juanita's stuff came out, there wouldn't be so much man-bashing, but I digress........:rolleyes:



They will both have more money than they'll ever spend. I mean, the kids have trust funds, their education is paid for...hell, Mike can give Juanita everything and make it up in endorsements, although after this mess, some of his endorsement money is sure to dry up.

If I was Mike, I would hate the fact that pretty soon, somebody else is gonna be running up into his baby's momma. That in itself is torture enough. But I'm not saying that to justify him dipping into thousands of pudding all over the world.
 
Re: I'm sure Juanita was getting her sha-bang-bang on also......

Originally posted by phatback
If I was Mike, I would hate the fact that pretty soon, somebody else is gonna be running up into his baby's momma. That in itself is torture enough.
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And how do you think Juanita felt with Mike....how'd you put it.....'dipping into thousands of pudding all over the world'
While he was SUPPOSED to be her husband.

....His arse should have stayed single
.....Or at least discussed it with her first, never know....she could have been into 'swaping'.
 
"L" yeah.....

saniyya:
His arse should have stayed single
.....Or at least discussed it with her first, never know....she could have been into 'swaping'
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"L" yes!!!! Just look @ Bill and Hillary!
Some people choose to put up with their mates/spouses cheat'n period. I'm not judging either way. I'm just saying what's right is right. What's fair is fair. In a marriage you two are ONE. HALF! HALF! HALF! DAYUMITT! No exceptions! Regardless of who was cheating or not. I never said she wasn't. I never said he did cheat. Who really cares other than those 2. I wasn't sleeping with him. (But, now that he's going to be single.:lol: )

Back to my point.

Many times people aren't mad because you're cheating. They're mad, upset...whatever you want to call it, because you didn't give them a "choice" in the matter. The fact is. Some women date married men. Some men date married women. Some single men cheat on their "SO". Some single women cheat on their "SO". Is it right? NO! Is it happening? YES.
Keep it real! You're ish ain't gold! He or she can get what she wants from any of the opposite sex. The only thing that separates those individuals is how you actually feel about that person which is why you're having sex with them in the first place. People dip for different reasons.

When you lay all the cards on the table there's no reason for anybody to be mad. Most people simply won't be honest and say... I'm dating you, but I'm going to date someone else too.

YOU know what you're own individual reasoning is. 9 times out of 10 they are simply "greedy", wanting their cake and trying to eat it too, whether male or female. But, nooooooohhh....
remember not too long ago, I brought up the point there are just as many puddins out there cheat'n and their spoons just don't know it. Yes...your puddin too. The spoons on this board were all but like "L" nawhl to a certain extent. The truth hurts doesn't it. :lol: PUDDINS CHEAT TOO. THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE SMART ARSE PUDDINS AND THE DUMB ARSE SPOONS IS PUDDINS ARE MORE DISCRETE. THEY DON'T HAVE TO FRONT OR BOAST ABOUT WHAT THEY'RE DOING or run and get their girl to drop them off. THEY SIMPLE LIVE AND LAUGH @ YOU DUMB ARSES who think you're actually getting ovah on them with all the countless troubles you bring to the relationship with other puddins in the mix. YES your puddin too is cheat'n.

While you think you slip'n out been a "mack" a "ballah", kiss her goodbye to hook up with ya chic who keeps page'n ya...o'dood is walk'n in the back door as you walk out the front door. She ain't gonna tell no lies, burn no gas...nothing. Ain't even gotta pay for a hotel. Why, cause o'dood is where you should be get'n what you have right there @ ya.

I'm not condoning it, but such is life. DEAL WITH it! Now, Mike can sit back and enjoy some other spoon love'n his puddin spending his money. Isn't that the part spoons hate most. Well, perhaps he or other spoons will think twice about dip'n other puddins(not that it matters whether he did or not) the next time he may decide to take a dive.

NOw, yawlh wonna hollar Juanita could've been dip'n too. She shouldn't get half..."L" don't give her nothing, she don't deserve it. He worked hard for his money.:rolleyes:

Whine...whine...whine....:bawling: AFTER THE DAYUM FACT!

Somebody give the spoons some crackers and cheese to go with that whine please.:lmao:
 
Re: "L" yeah.....

Originally posted by aamuprettywoman

But, nooooooohhh....
remember not too long ago, I brought up the point there are just as many puddins out there cheat'n and their spoons just don't know it. Yes...your puddin too. The spoons on this board were all but like "L" nawhl to a certain extent. The truth hurts doesn't it. :lol: PUDDINS CHEAT TOO. THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE SMART ARSE PUDDINS AND THE DUMB ARSE SPOONS IS PUDDINS ARE MORE DISCRETE. THEY DON'T HAVE TO FRONT OR BOAST ABOUT WHAT THEY'RE DOING or run and get their girl to drop them off. THEY SIMPLE LIVE AND LAUGH @ YOU DUMB ARSES who think you're actually getting ovah on them with all the countless troubles you bring to the relationship with other puddins in the mix. YES your puddin too is cheat'n.

While you think you slip'n out been a "mack" a "ballah", kiss her goodbye to hook up with ya chic who keeps page'n ya...o'dood is walk'n in the back door as you walk out the front door. She ain't gonna tell no lies, burn no gas...nothing. Ain't even gotta pay for a hotel. Why, cause o'dood is where you should be get'n what you have right there @ ya.
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I don't remember spoons disagreeing that puddins cheat. Hell, when spoons dip, they dipping in pudding. Many times, somebody else's puddin. So please stop acking like you telling us something. This ain't news.

Now, what we took you to task on was how you seem to think that puddins get over on us spoons, because y'all are more discreet. BULLISHT!!! I done seen too many puddins caught up, so save the "we're way to smart to get caught bit."
 
Who's really going to be hurt?

I think the kids will suffer the most. I mean for us, yeah, we could get by with memories and the amount of money will help someway. But, kids only want "Love". They have been brought up in the house (until now) with both parents. I know, I know.. Dad has not been around that often, but he has been there. Myself, being from a one parent home, I always wanted my dad to come to my football games, my high school graduation, etc... He was just never there.

As for them, now they must re-adjust to "Dad" not living in the house anymore, seeing other men over, and maybe even hearing Mom fuss on the phone to Dad about something. Just hope this whole thing do not follow the O. J. path.:smh: :smh: :smh:
 
All of this dayum finger pointing...

MJ got busted. Prez Clinton got busted. Jimmy Swaggart got busted. Magic got busted! Dayum Playas!

When going into marriage, I don't think any of these folks actually wanted to have some side action. Most guys wanna do right, but sometimes isht backfires. I met a Jamaican woman who told me once..."whatever it takes to please my man sexually, I'll do because I know it'll make him happy. If he's happy, then that's all that matters!" Of course I told her if he keeled over any time within the next 5 years, to give me a call!

Maybe we should take the "obey" portion out of the wedding vows for the females and insert "...if for any reason this puddin' refuses to deliver the dessert as desired, then the spoon has a right to exercise other options!"

:D

Dayum, wonder if my ol lady having me followed....
 
Re: All of this dayum finger pointing...

Originally posted by Jaguar Diehard

I met a Jamaican woman who told me once..."whatever it takes to please my man sexually, I'll do because I know it'll make him happy. If he's happy, then that's all that matters!"
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JD,

That's what's wrong with us women....we're so busy trying to please the man and forget about self. I, for one don't have a problem with doing so, but it is nice to be reciprocated from time to time, ya know.:rolleyes:

And furthermore, you can freak the hell out of a man and they will still go and freak someone else...so that's bullisht that the Jamaican is saying too.

Bottom line is people need to stop getting married if they're not going to do it for the right reason(s). A baby is not a legitimate reason to get married. It never works out. You may not divorce, but the marriage will end.....if you get my drift.
 



Yeah, Yeah, Yeah

Just last week in the Sports Illustrater Magazine, an article ran saying that Juanita was here in Washington with Mike looking for a place in the Suburbs of Potomac. I guess since he did not buy it, she decided to divorce him. :confused:
 
Re: Re: All of this dayum finger pointing...

Originally posted by Dtown Jag

A baby is not a legitimate reason to get married. It never works out. You may not divorce, but the marriage will end.....if you get my drift.
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Say it, say it!!!!!!!
 
Re: I'm done with this topic

Originally posted by Dtown Jag
STFU.....
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DTOWN- I am laughing at your inability to stay out of this thread!! :lmao:

I realized that you are tired of this subject, but you have to admit it makes for interesting talk/feedback. ;)
 
Re: Re: I'm done with this topic

Originally posted by Miami Jag


DTOWN- I am laughing at your inability to stay out of this thread!! :lmao:

I realized that you are tired of this subject, but you have to admit it makes for interesting talk/feedback. ;)
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You're right MJ...it's reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllll hard on a sister not to speak her peace.

:lmao:
 
Originally posted by Robber
JSTUS, Gram Tigress, Nita, ATL, Tara, Dtown, etc . . .
Don't agree to this. Y'all know I'm married and the only woman I love is y'all.:D
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Snicker...

Why all of the sudden she became preg by MJ, prior to their marriage? Did she trap him? I guess we only can assume, but that is neither here or there at this point. Good luck to the both of them.
 
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