I won't make my child attend a HBCU, but my husband and I are going to strongly encourage it, and we will expose him to black college life.
People do have to do what's best for them, and that's cool.
But as for "me and my house," we're encouraging HBCUs for the undergraduate experience.
And as far as education on the elementary/high school level, I'm pro public school all the way--- as long as the school district is great. I don't care if it's an all black school or mixed. Because I plan to expose my son to much more than what's at school and at home. I have a responsibility as a parent to raise a man who can stand on his own two feet, good make judgements (even concerning college) and not be sheltered to what's in the world. Many of those teachings will start at HOME, so it doesn't matter if he goes to a white or black school as a child.
Higher education hits more closer to home for me. I do care where he goes for college. I have NO problem admitting that I'm a racist when it comes to our HBCUs versus the PWCs. I am. I would MUCH RATHER see my people at our schools (esp. high intellects and star athletes). I LOVE my black schools, the rich heritage that comes along with it and how many of us can still overcome adversity on a college campus.