Thats mostly where you are wrong Blue. John 3:16 says, "For GOD so loved the world, that HE gave his only begotten SON that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life.
It does not say in this scripture, follow the Son, worship the Son, Fight or argue for the Son, but to confusingly enough, believe (and that goes for anybody) - and believing in HIM IS NOT CHRISTIANITY, following Him is.
Christianity is a religion Blue, remember the two brothers who were casting out demons in the new testament that were then beat naked by those demons? Remember how the Bible warns us aainst false prophets? Remember how is revalations the folks try to justify their salvation by the work they had done in the name of Christianity? all of this stuff is about religion and God stopped caring about religion a long time ago when he said "For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God." What is his glory? Jesus Christ. What do we come short of? Jesus Christ. Why have we come short? Because of sin.
Because of sin, religion can not save us, which is why we are saved by grace, through faith - And not by rules or standards in and of Christianity.
Luke 15:11-32....Was the son that left and went to the far country, not still his fathers son?