Oral Stimulation


Dr. Sweet NUPE

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Check this out.......one of my boys up here in Arkansas made the statement last night that he does not provide oral stimulation to his woman. Yet, he requires her to do it.

My question is simple, should this be a pre-requisite to a relationship?
 
Should it be a pre-requisite?????? Now, what a question. I don't think that it should be, but to each his own. It's all about what one is attempting to gain from a relationship. It all you're interested in is oral stimulation, then I guess it would be a pre-requisite for you.

We need to start focusing more on things with substance in a relationship and not just on sex. That will come along with time. Some may not be as comfortable as others when it comes to oral sex, but if that person is really feeling you or vice versa, it'll happen....eventually.

My advice to your boy is to not be so selfish....do unto others as you want them to do unto you.:D
 



Here's my take on oral "stimulation"...

It's all about experimentation and exploration. Some people "return the favor" only because they feel that it's their obligation, if you will. Some people use oral stimulation as a way of pleasing their partner in a different way. If you've been having sex for a while, and it's the bomb, trying oral sex is only a step further in the sexual gratification process. All in all, it depends on your selfishness. If all you care about is the amount of pleasure YOU receive and don't give a rats bottom about whether or not your partner is pleased, then oral sex is not your bag.
 
Re: Here's my take on oral "stimulation"...

Originally posted by smallone
It's all about experimentation and exploration. Some people "return the favor" only because they feel that it's their obligation, if you will. Some people use oral stimulation as a way of pleasing their partner in a different way. If you've been having sex for a while, and it's the bomb, trying oral sex is only a step further in the sexual gratification process. All in all, it depends on your selfishness. If all you care about is the amount of pleasure YOU receive and don't give a rats bottom about whether or not your partner is pleased, then oral sex is not your bag.

Dayum baby, you sound like an expert on this subject!
 
Re: Here's my take on oral "stimulation"...

Originally posted by smallone
If all you care about is the amount of pleasure YOU receive and don't give a rats bottom about whether or not your partner is pleased, then oral sex is not your bag.

and the crowd goessssss WILDDDDDDD!!!!

You do me I do you You do me I do you You do me I do you You do me I do you You do me I do you You do me I do you You do me I do you You do me I do you You do me I do you You do me I do you.................
 
Re: Re: Here's my take on oral "stimulation"...

Originally posted by SAME OLD G


Dayum baby, you sound like an expert on this subject!

Not so much of an expert, more like a proficient administrator ;)
I know how to please mine :D
 
Oral Stimulation?????

OIC

Y'all talking about putting yo mouth on that thang!!!

That's part of the total package for me and mine

Not getting slobed on is like just sticking the head in
and you know that ain't gonna work!!!!
 
Re: Re: Re: Here's my take on oral "stimulation"...

Originally posted by smallone


Not so much of an expert, more like a proficient administrator ;)
I know how to please mine :D

Dayum babygirl.........it's like that???? :eek:

My theory is........"When you're in a war and you're trying to go for the win, employ all tactics........ :p

STOP....DROP....AND ROLL!!! :lmao:
(Puddin'........it's an acquired taste!!)
 
Lick Em Low Luva !!!

Nupe tell, your boy his problem might be psychological. I am considering coming out with products that will help burthas like him that are still in the dark ages and don't go downtown.
I am thinking of coming out with femenine hygeine products with various flavors... Like Chicken, Pinto Bean, Jambalaya, Lasanga and etc.

That way, when he is out with ole girl and they bout to go to da crib and He gets hungry and says Im bout to go get something to eat....She can say...Uhh,Uhh, Nizzza...I got some chicken down here for you to eat...you better just get you a bisquit and come on.



:D :D :D
 
Re: Re: Re: Here's my take on oral "stimulation"...

Originally posted by smallone


Not so much of an expert, more like a proficient administrator ;)
I know how to please mine :D
:love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: :love:
 
If it is important to her,

Then he needs to set his mouth out or be the **** out ... OR, he needs to find a woman who doesn't mind him NOT engaging in that particular activity, yet will still indulge his whim.
 
Re: Speechless...

Originally posted by MikeBigg
In other words..."The Cat's got my tongue"!

STOPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
 



Oral stimulation should be outlawed. One day some young man is gonna have a broken neck/esophagus. :p :p :p :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
 
If you're laying enough lumber....why paint the walls over and over with the paint brush??? Go ahead and build the house!!!

I build mansions over here. I guess you could call me....a MASON!!!! LOL

NN
 
Originally posted by NASTYNUPE
If you're laying enough lumber....why paint the walls over and over with the paint brush??? Go ahead and build the house!!!

I build mansions over here. I guess you could call me....a MASON!!!! LOL

NN

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

Kellis, you ain't right either....:D
 
Well, speaking ONLY for myself ...

My foundation has natural lubrication, and doesn't need any of that artificial stuff.
 
Originally posted by s phi s


:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

Kellis, you ain't right either....:D

All I've got to say is some brothers will be paralyzed for doing such a great job and others for doing a lousy job.
 
This topic is good to the last drop...............

The kid needs these to put in work:

Hard hat
Safety Glasses
Cloth Napkin


And a consent form that releases me from any liabilities (concusion from flopping around like a tuna and bumping that noggin or severe dehydration)

:D
 
ITA

Originally posted by Dtown Jag
We need to start focusing more on things with substance in a relationship and not just on sex. That will come along with time. Some may not be as comfortable as others when it comes to oral sex, but if that person is really feeling you or vice versa, it'll happen....eventually.

I don't have time to type my POV on this subject matter, but ITA agree with the statement above. She hit the nail on the head!
 
Actually, I've decided to cut back. My Doctor told me one more "ear" infection and he was gonna report me to the Health Department!

The "Head First" Lover In the House!!!!
 
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