GramUntilDeath
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JSU/99 said:I watched the show with the Mrs. last night. I must say it was funny, sad and strange all at once.
Nobody deserves to be hurt like she was, but Terry does bear some responsibility. On one hand she talks about how hurt she was and how in love she was with him. Then she refers to him as like having a "new puppy" and talking about all of the sexual pleasure she gave him. Seems to me that not only was he her little boy-toy, she wasn't shy about letting him know what he was. That may be cool for a 20 y/o without a dime to his name, but you knew he was gonna get tired of that as he got older. Even if he wasn't gay, he was going to leave her eventually. A relationship can't last if both parties aren't equal partners. I wouldn't be surprised if he cheated with women and men all thru the relationship.
As for him, She had it right when she called him a sociopath. He needs to come to grip with the fact that not only was he gay from the beginning, he was also using her from the beginning. He signed the pre-nup, it says he gets nothing so that's exactly what he should get, nothing. The way I see it he came out ahead anyway. Most boy-toys only get a few items of clothing, maybe some jewelry. This fool got 6 1/2 years of luxury. He should've quit while he was ahead.
Well!!!!! I watched it twice on DVR and it was something else to watch.....I have a few things that GUD wants to comment on......
1. When they showed the pictures you could see in his movements that he was GAY!!!!!! I was like Terry you were just blinded and personally people get caught up in the "what they are getting out of it part" and ignoring the obvious. GUD thinks that McMillian was just blinded by for whatever reason the good SEX which will not make you happy forever......
I also feel that Terry is to bright of a lady to be that blinded.... I just hope that she is not one of those women that think she can change a man by FUGGIN him allthe time..... I have a coworker that made a very VALID point that I want those interested to think about..... IF A MAN LIKES OTHER MEN THERE IS NOTHING A WOMEN CAN DO TO PULL HIM AWAY FROM THAT.... I DON'T CARE HOW MUCH YOU DO FOR HIM MONEY WISE OR SEXUALLY IT WON'T MAKE HIM CHANGE AT ALL!!!!! Women just be carefulin what you settle for in life... So many women feel that since theya re gettign older they just have to have a husband and they end up getting something that is not even TRUE to them...... In a nutshell WE THE PEOPLE need to make wiser choices in things like this that will affect our lives forever..... I hate that this happened to her but all I can say is she should have saw it....... I look at this coworker everday and shake my head simply because of th games he is playing with these men..... But like I told him before "KARMA" is going to get you and when it does you won't know what happens... This guy is only interested in pleasing his family but what he is doing is putting other people life in jeopardy and he said that he doe snot always use condoms with some of the guys that he sleeps with.... I respect him as a coworker but not as a person because that is PURE DECEPTION!!!!!! But just imagine how many people are doing this is the QUESTION!!!!!!!!! Guys it's the same for us to women are doing the same maybe just not in rcord numbers as men......... PEOPLE IN CLOSING ALL I AM SAYING IS THIS IS 2005 AND WE NEED TO BE CAREFUL ON THE DECISIONS THAT WE MAKE IN LIFE!!!!!!!