Re: Do you guys ever read the Bible??
Originally posted by docmump
I believe in what the Bible says:
Who is the House Band?
Who is responsible for holding the house together?
Who Leaves the father and mother and Clings to the spouse?
Who is the Bread Winner of Old?
The Defender of the House?
Who Trains the children?
Who is not to Spare the Rod?
Who is to Love and who is to "Submit, dont misunderstand what this means"?
Who is the Head of the House?
ANSWER:
The Husband, The MAN.
How can he lead if he is not willing to start the trip. Men should be men.
Posting not to upset anyone, Just to inform.
Not meaning to upset you, but how many men still do those things you alluded to? In fact, how many even KNOW about many of those sayings. Lets face the facts, most of the things you have listed are being done by the wife, mother, SI very, very well.
Heck, most of the "good men" I know are women.
I have watched so many women sit around waiting on the MAN to repair this, bring the money home, take them somewhere, etc. that I personally grew sick of it all and promised I wouldn't do it to myself.
I met, PROPOSED TO and married my husband in less than a year. It wasn't no biological clock dilemma or a have to situations ( I was 22 at the time). I felt that he was THE ONE and I took the plunge. We've been married for the past 15 so far. Have we had problems? Sure. But I can truthfully say, they begin around 5 years ago.
So, I personally say do what you want. If you ask and he says no, be thankful that now you both know it and move on. If he says yes, maybe you've got something to build on. Men like fiesty, independent women a heck of a lot more than passive one.
Maybe if more women stepped out of the "box" and took a leap of faith and asked, maybe they wouldn't end up feeling "boxed in".