Like It Or Leave It?

[kellis]

If you love something, and truly love it, like Fortitude said, work at keeping it, because once it's gone, it's gone, and if it returns, don't be mad when it comes back years later with baggage.....i.e....an Ex, kids, debt problems......

NICE

Sometimes, it's not about love. What's the point in "working to keep it" if you are the only person doing the work?

 

[CriTAUcal]

Sometimes, it's not about love. What's the point in "working to keep it" if you are the only person doing the work?

There is no point in doing that. Been there, done that. :tdown:

 

[Dr. Sweet NUPE]

I think a lot this has to do with a maintaining a clear understanding of the nature of the relationship.:read:

 

[CriTAUcal]

I think a lot this has to do with a maintaining a clear understanding of the nature of the relationship.:read:

That's why communication is important!

 

[Dr. Sweet NUPE]

That's why communication is important!

Yup...you have one person going in one direction and one going in another. :shame:

 

[D-NICE]

Sometimes, it's not about love. What's the point in "working to keep it" if you are the only person doing the work?

That's why I said, don't fool yourself grasping for straws, for somebody who doesn't love you. At a certain point you have to say to yourself, it's time to move on.

Too many people (men & women) have wasted good time, good money, good tears, and good loving on somebody who wasn't on the same page as they were/are. In my life experience's, if someone has to ask a friend, if they think they're stupid behind that man/woman, chances are they know the answer is yes before they ask the question.

Again, a persons actions will let you know where you stand with them, and if good sex is clouding your judgement as to what you want in love, but are not recieving, then I hope that some form of birth control is used when having that good sex, because too many kids are running around fatherless, unloved, and unwanted, because some woman confused good sex, with good love.

NICE

 

[aamuprettywoman]

That's why I said, don't fool yourself grasping for straws, for somebody who doesn't love you. At a certain point you have to say to yourself, it's time to move on.

Too many people (men & women) have wasted good time, good money, good tears, and good loving on somebody who wasn't on the same page as they were/are. In my life experience's, if someone has to ask a friend, if they think they're stupid behind that man/woman, chances are they know the answer is yes before they ask the question.

Again, a persons actions will let you know where you stand with them, and if good sex is clouding your judgement as to what you want in love, but are not recieving, then I hope that some form of birth control is used when having that good sex, because too many kids are running around fatherless, unloved, and unwanted, because some woman confused good sex, with good love.

NICE

Preach!

Actions...don't lie! A person can say anything! What they do and how they do it...is how they express how they feel about you.

You have to wait for the proper seed to cultivate and stop try'n to make it up along the way. Can't just play HOUSE when you trying to make a home.

 

[Warndalyn]

That's why I said, don't fool yourself grasping for straws, for somebody who doesn't love you. At a certain point you have to say to yourself, it's time to move on.

Too many people (men & women) have wasted good time, good money, good tears, and good loving on somebody who wasn't on the same page as they were/are. In my life experience's, if someone has to ask a friend, if they think they're stupid behind that man/woman, chances are they know the answer is yes before they ask the question.

Again, a persons actions will let you know where you stand with them, and if good sex is clouding your judgement as to what you want in love, but are not recieving, then I hope that some form of birth control is used when having that good sex, because too many kids are running around fatherless, unloved, and unwanted, because some woman confused good sex, with good love.

NICE

Great post, Derrick...:tup:

 

[Fortitude]

That's why I said, don't fool yourself grasping for straws, for somebody who doesn't love you. At a certain point you have to say to yourself, it's time to move on.

Too many people (men & women) have wasted good time, good money, good tears, and good loving on somebody who wasn't on the same page as they were/are. In my life experience's, if someone has to ask a friend, if they think they're stupid behind that man/woman, chances are they know the answer is yes before they ask the question.

Again, a persons actions will let you know where you stand with them, and if good sex is clouding your judgement as to what you want in love, but are not recieving, then I hope that some form of birth control is used when having that good sex, because too many kids are running around fatherless, unloved, and unwanted, because some woman confused good sex, with good love.

NICE

Wonderful insight!!! :tup:

 

[cat daddy]

Agree's with Fort and D-Nice. Could not have said it better. :tup:

 

[Fortitude]

Agree's with Fort and D-Nice. Could not have said it better. :tup:

I loves me some Kitty Kat!!! :love:

Hey Tiny, is that the one with the push buttons?

No, it's a regular oversized chair/ottoman.

 

[Legend35]

Is it true that if you love something set it free and if it comes back to you...it was meant to be?

Tony is banned from this thread!:slap:

Someone once said those very same words to me with regards to love.
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Ohhh!!!!! Amen D-NICE