Half of men would dump a girlfriend who gained weight survey says


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JUST EAT HEALTHY AND EXERCISE EVERYDAY! DRINK PLENTY OF WATER!

reading the labels on food and being aware of what you are eating goes a longgg way!
 
Now I am not so shallow if you gain a small amount of weight. You know around 5- 10 lbs, but when you go from a size 8 to a size 16 in a year and you ain't even had no kids, sorry um :gone: :wavey:
 



TRU3000 said:
JUST EAT HEALTHY AND EXERCISE EVERYDAY! DRINK PLENTY OF WATER!

reading the labels on food and being aware of what you are eating goes a longgg way!
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To some ppl...that just seems to much like right, and to much work just to eat... smh




~walks out~
 
CEE DOG said:
Aye, I have been telling yall about the weight requirement in my bed for the last 10 years though. :gone: :gone: :lol:
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Yeah, we know.
So you're tall and fit, huh? Sounds good! :tup: What that face looking like? When are we going to see a picture?
 
Smoke said:
To some ppl...that just seems to much like right, and to much work just to eat... smh




~walks out~
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I think thats the reason so many black folks have problems with high blood pressure which results in other health issues that will eventually cause death...

Im not Nation of Islam or Seventh Day Adventist...but have dated two women of both faiths and one thing for sure their eating habits were on point and I adopted alot of them as my own!

I only eat chicken and fish mainly and numerous times just thought of cutting out chicken all together and becoming a pescetarian..but if I can't eat red meat like that I can't give up that yard bird mmmmmm

if you gotta have red meat just do it in moderation like once a month and continue to eat more fruits and veggies than the bad stuff...i.e. high sodium, high calorie, sugars, pork, and fast foods

just remember the majority of today's food is POISON
 
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I'm 161 lbs soaking wet. In great physical shape and still striving to do better.


:lecture: FYI, thick is what that chick is in 97jsulegends sig. :love: My gawd!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyway, aint nothing healthy about being fat. Nothing. I won't be turned off from a woman who gain a lil weight in relationship. Its a clear difference between gaining weight and getting fat....



Another thing, a lot of black women are too lazy to exercise. Its true. I"m constantly offering women at my job and women that i'm cool with to go jogging or some sort. They never want to sweat out their hair......smh.
 
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TRU3000 said:
I think thats the reason so many black folks have problems with high blood pressure which results in other health issues that will eventually cause death.
Im not Nation of Islam or Seventh Day Adventist...but have dated two women of both faiths and one thing for sure their eating habits were on point and I adopted alot of them as my own!

I only eat chicken and fish mainly and numerous times just thought of cutting out chicken all together and becoming a pescetarian..but if I can't eat red meat like that I can't give up that yard bird mmmmmm

if you gotta have red meat just do it in moderation like once a month and continue to eat more fruits and veggies than the bad stuff...i.e. high sodium, high calorie, sugars, pork, and fast foods

just remember the majority of today's food is POISON
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Uhhh..tru...i feel you on eatin healthy....but i ain't givin up the swine my brother....lol



~walks out~
 
I think all people are shallow to a certain extent, and everyone has their preferences. I had one guy threaten to leave if I lost weight. And I also had one guy use leaving as an "incentive" to keep me from regaining weight that I lost, even though he fought me all the way as I was losing weight. I threw the deuces to both of them. I've never been a small chick and my weight has always fluctuated, but I have always been a good, caring, and loyal person. Physical appearances change over time and if you are willing to leave because of that, then ride out.
 
i know i know smoke...that swine is like the plague on a brother lol

i had to pledge allegiance to turkey bacon and turkey sausage :lol:
 
jsupop33 said:
Lioness, I think you stretching. I never said that I would drop a chick just cause she gained weight. Atleast, not if we are at the point where we are serious. I even posted about my experience in the past. I am saying that I would try to help her stay in shape.
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97JSULEGEND said:
How did you get that from my post. I told you my wife went from a size 8 up to14 and back down to a 6. We changed the familys eating habbits and we all saw a big difference...

Now if we was not married and just dating then 8 to 14 may cause a pause and if she was not willing to change her eating habits and go workout with me then it would cause some problems. I want to enjoy a healthy partner for as long as I can.. I'm a little shallow as well but who isn't...
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None of the people you are addressing in this question.mentioned dumping anyone.
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I'm sorry for calling you 3 out like that. I guess I was reading too much into the posts; I'm just used to going by what a person thinks is how they feel. I apologize.

~Carry on~
 
To some people...hell, to a lot of people, physical appearance is crucial. That's understandable. Some people believe that the person they are with is a representation of themselves, and they take it very seriously. That's understandable as well.

I don't think this is about being a good person to your S/O. They way I see it, if you don't take the time out to be good to yourself first and take care of yourself (like your health), how can you be good to anyone else? Be good to yourself. Always work on improving your health. It's good for you physically AND mentally. Your S/O will appreciate it...and those endorphins are something else.
 



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If a person asks you to become unhealthy or remain unhealthy, then that person is ignorant, selfish or doesn't love you. Probably all three.

This has nothing to do with personality.

A person who gives you a syringe filled with heroin does not love you. I'm sure there are a lot of nice and kind junkies out there with good personalities. They are still a junkie. And the person who put them there and who is keeping them there does not love them.

I just believe two people who love each other should want the best for each other. Otherwise, they shouldn't be together.

Just my opinion ....
 
5'11 215 lbs. now. I was 242 lbs back in Feb. Still want to lose 5 to 10 more lbs. 3 to 4 mi of cardio 3 to 4 times a week and eating right would do.
 
6 3 225. trying to gain more muscle. my girl is 5 9 and a size 10 and i dont want her to lose another pound bc she had some tig ole bitties but when she dropped that weight the titties went down. :(

i dont like no sloppy bad built woman. that shit looks disgusting. esp the stomachs spillin out under the shirt and dem rolls spilling all out the back. wear yo size and work out. my girl was a 14 and always had weight problem so i was like ok lets start walking, then we started running, then we started doing all kinds of stuff together. Its fun to me. So ladies dont be afraid to sweat that perm out and fellas work out with ya woman and take her home and work her out. Win for everybody.
 
SUJagFan said:
If a person asks you to become unhealthy or remain unhealthy, then that person is ignorant, selfish or doesn't love you. Probably all three.

This has nothing to do with personality.

A person who gives you a syringe filled with heroin does not love you. I'm sure there are a lot of nice and kind junkies out there with good personalities. They are still a junkie. And the person who put them there and who is keeping them there does not love them.

I just believe two people who love each other should want the best for each other. Otherwise, they shouldn't be together.

Just my opinion ....
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I agree. You gotta introduce those endorphins to her life. Once she gets that runner's high, there's no turning back... :lol:
 
luvdaboom said:
6 3 225. trying to gain more muscle. my girl is 5 9 and a size 10 and i dont want her to lose another pound bc she had some tig ole bitties but when she dropped that weight the titties went down. :(

i dont like no sloppy bad built woman. that shit looks disgusting. esp the stomachs spillin out under the shirt and dem rolls spilling all out the back. wear yo size and work out. my girl was a 14 and always had weight problem so i was like ok lets start walking, then we started running, then we started doing all kinds of stuff together. Its fun to me. So ladies dont be afraid to sweat that perm out and fellas work out with ya woman and take her home and work her out. Win for everybody.
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That's what I'm talking 'bout! :tup:

Perm thing isn't an issue for me. I've been natural for more than two years, in part now, because I want to continue to work out like I do. It'll be a challenge to sweat like I do in kickbox cardio class 3 times a week and then have my hair looking like Nia Long (gorgeous, short cropped/spiked hair) for work.
 
luvdaboom said:
6 3 225. trying to gain more muscle. my girl is 5 9 and a size 10 and i dont want her to lose another pound bc she had some tig ole bitties but when she dropped that weight the titties went down. :(

i dont like no sloppy bad built woman. that shit looks disgusting. esp the stomachs spillin out under the shirt and dem rolls spilling all out the back. wear yo size and work out. my girl was a 14 and always had weight problem so i was like ok lets start walking, then we started running, then we started doing all kinds of stuff together. Its fun to me. So ladies dont be afraid to sweat that perm out and fellas work out with ya woman and take her home and work her out. Win for everybody.
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Crying out loud...Gone....
 
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