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How old is your daughter, first of all? I don't believe she's near the age of shaving, periods and douching.
but, to answer your question(s), when shaving, you need to either purchase one of those nice womenz razors and a nice shaving gel/cream. Normally, you just want to trim the bikini area...if a woman is extremely hairy, in that area, she usually waxes. but, once again, I don't believe your
child is ready for these things.
Douching is only necessary, on occasion...just for that fresh and clean feeling. A woman is not suppose to douce very often, at all...it washes out the natural secretions/healthy bacteria of a woman's vagina. Most women tend to douche once a month, which is usually after their menstrual cycle. BUT, it isn't even necessary then, b/c that's the purpose of a menstrual cycle...it naturally cleanses our system.
Has your
child gotten her period, already? If so...

Just purchase her some sanitary napkins by
Always. Get the ones w/wings. They'll help to protect her panties, from accidents. Also, she is too damn young for tampons...please don't buy those.
Any other questions, call me! Hope this helps...:tup:
btw, I can refer you to my OB/GYN if you're
seriously looking for one...he's awesome and most importantly, he's a Christian. :nod: