Damn Good Discussion!
My advice would be to tell him to... 1. stay on his purpose
2. focus on his purpose
3. worry about his purpose
Staying one's purpose
is everything for a man....
My testimony is my best moments and interactions with my favorite women has always been (and continues to be
) when I am on my grind, hustling, putting in my work of following my passions
in pursuit of my purpose
. Not that I have always known this or been doing this, but only in recent years have I put two and two together and figured this was what it was all about. Every time I've been on my purpose
, I've always found myself around and near the women that are right for me in every kind of way, always.
Age 24 right? As he gets older, it will be easier...
Why I keep emphasizing purpose
? Maybe when one is on his purpose
, more than likely he will be in the vicinity of those women that are into what he is into and that in itself everything, more so than looks or what she can do in the bedroom. The isth gets old as you get grown. Man, I love it when a woman loves the same music I love, the same books that I love, the same sports teams that I love never mind doing the same work that I do professionally.
Plus, remind him that plenty of women will always be available. When one is not feeling you or you are not feeling her, move on because there are so many good ones out there. Don't fall for those silly trap games either. If she is playing around or slowing you down while you are trying to stay on your purpose
, on to the next. I've tried to tell my son this. I think he gets it.
Whatever he feels his purpose
is (grinding, hustling, making money, music, art, or whatever he is passionate about doing) ...just stay on it and he will be fine...and he really won't have to look for her, she or they will find him...
...and after he hooks up, don't get complacent or let up with being on his purpose...