Dumper or Dumped


Shamocha

Deserving Of Everything
Well since Cee touched on it... are you usually the dumper or the one being broken up with. I can honestly day I've been dumped hmm twice I think. The other times I ended it. I think I had committment issues at the time.

I can't lie, at first I thought you were going to be talking about being booted out of a relationship. :lol: Now that would be an interesting topic. :lol:
 



Well I ain't gone lie I have been dumped. I have had chicks tell me you try to play around to much for me. :emlaugh: Man the good old days, but when I wanted to get rid of a chick I just stop calling. They got the hint.
 
i've only had a hand full of serious relationships so most of my situation's endings were mutual or we just gradually fell off. i'm sure for the the non serious stuff dumping would include just not answering the phone, or stopped calling a person, and i've been the receiver of that, as well as the giver. i've never been told to my face or over the phone that i was being sidelined effective immediately.
 
It was always me being the dumper or a mutual agreement. Only one guy ever broke up with me and it was during college- he claimed that I was too "bossy." :rolleyes: :lol:

~Kelis, send help~ :lol:
 
My heart was broken, but we got back together like 2 days later. Does that count as being dumped?
 
Does it count as being dumped or not even in the game, because when I was a young whippersnapper in elementary I was in love with a chick, but I was too scared to talk to her, so I figured I'd give her one of them standard love letters. I gave it to her one day as she got off the bus, and to my dismay, I looked and she had dropped it in a puddle of water in front of her house. :(
 
Does it count as being dumped or not even in the game, because when I was a young whippersnapper in elementary I was in love with a chick, but I was too scared to talk to her, so I figured I'd give her one of them standard love letters. I gave it to her one day as she got off the bus, and to my dismay, I looked and she had dropped it in a puddle of water in front of her house. :(

Awwwww.
 
:lol: @ ms.sonic! :nod:

Dumper and keep on kicking not once looking back......heyal, I'm that way about a lot of things....when I'm done...I'm done....:swink:
 



I've only dated three ladies.

The first one I dated I dumped her. I called her on the phone and told her it was over. We dated while at Grambling, but I didn't want to be with her anymore. She wanted to be under her mom too much and her family was controlling her.

The second lady dumped me. She called me and said she didn't want to date me anymore. This was a long distance relationship that went bad about two years after we graduated from Grambling. She lived in Indianappolis, IN and I lived in Tucson, AZ. We had heated arguments because we both had gotten tired of flying to eachothers location. I think if the distance wasn't there we would have probably gotten married. Oh well, I'm married now and this is the plan god had for me. :clap:
 
To be honest, all of my relationships have ended on mutual decisions/respect...with the exception of my marriage. I got rid of his ass and he'll tell you I did.
 
All women have dumped someone before. They start young. It starts when they are in day care. You be Likening on lil Mary sharing your snacks with her today and then Mary dumps you the next day for snotty nose Johnnie. :lol:
 
Both,....Cee they are trained to say no from day one. I was basically dumped on my graduation day from JSU. It was pay back for my dumping ways in Highschool and early on in college. I resumed those ways after that dumping. I would date a while and then just stop calling.:D
 
I'm just gone be straight up and say I dumped two great women for no reason at all............just plain stupid.:angry: They had wife material written all over them and I jacked it up.:smh:
 
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