I mean, maybe it's because I'm in ATL but this really aint nothin new. When I was at GSU there was a "stem" that stayed across the hall from me in the loft. She was the one that taught me what all them letters and shit mean. She told me a stem was basically a cross of a stud and a fem. Meaning sometimes she would dress like a feminine chick and others she would be a soft stud. No pants sagging or overly thuggish or anything like that. Your desire to smash would've basically been based on whether you saw her as a fem or a stud when you met her. When she was a fem, she was fine as hell. Even when she was on the stud shit you could still tell she was a fine chick. I dabbled into her viddles for a few months and it was cool. My only rule was when you come across the hall you got to be dressed like a fem... don't come over here with no boxers on. Hell I ain't gon front I'd do it again too.