Beauty Diggers?!?!


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Tony

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I was talking to this lady about how gold diggers,
Are just after a man for his money and some get these
Huge divorce settlements

And she said it’s fair because men are Beauty diggers!

She said men just want a pretty face, and a large booty, and that
We could careless about the character of a woman
So being a victim of a gold digger is our own fault.

She says no matter how horrible the man looks, he demands his wife to
To be fine, fine fine

So it’s our fault


I was lmao @ the term Beauty diggers :lol: I never heard that term before :lol:

are we Beauty Diggers?...lol...

Does she have a valid point?
 
Pretty much.

I wouldn't say that beauty and character are mutually exclusive in women, but sometimes we may overlook character issues and put ourselves into some bad situations.
 



SUJagFan said:
Pretty much.

I wouldn't say that beauty and character are mutually exclusive in women, but sometimes we may overlook character issues and put ourselves into some bad situations.
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HA!

So we are Beauty Diggers? Not good-character women diggers?
or even beauty + character diggers?

I think she's saying men will marry a chick, if she's fine even when he knows
she's not worth it. So when we do that she says we deserve to be taken to the cleaners,
for being dumb lustful animals.
 
Yes, ya'll are beauty diggers.
I have an ex who makes it clear that his women have to have pretty faces.
 
Tony said:
So we are Beauty Diggers? Not good-character women diggers?
or even beauty + character diggers?

I think she's saying men will marry a chick, if she's fine even when he knows
she's not worth it. So when we do that she says we deserve to be taken to the cleaners,
for being dumb lustful animals.
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Two words: Deion. Sanders. :noidea:

Sure, it would be nice for us to consider character and integrity above other things. But, show me a wealthy man who has married an ugly girl with character over other more attractive women. Denzel? MC Hammer? That's about it. Everybody else ... pretty women. Let's just be real.

The more I think about it though, maybe both processes are natural. Men seeking the most beautiful. Women seeking the most fit whether that's financial or otherwise. Natural selection. Go after what we want most and deal with that other stuff later. Usually in a disastrous fashion.
 
CriTAUcal said:
Yes, ya'll are beauty diggers.
I have an ex who makes it clear that his women have to have pretty faces.
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I mean like lately I've seen some dudes marry strippers, or marry chicks that are
well known to get around.

I also see alot of what I call A+++ women not married

I never saw this in the past. you think men are so increasely hung up on
Beauty that if she looks good we'll give the woman a pass
no matter what. Then complain later when we gotta hand over half our stuff?
 
True look at these dudes in the NFL with 8-10 kids...SMH Janoris Jenkins got booted from Florida, then North Alamabam and would have been a 1st round draft pick father 4 kids by three women in the last year...SMH..Pretty face and body will get most every time...

Thing is the midlevel to ugly chicks will work you like a mule...You just cant look in they eyes...LOL
 
SUJagFan said:
Two words: Deion. Sanders. :noidea:

Sure, it would be nice for us to consider character and integrity above other things. But, show me a wealthy man who has married an ugly girl with character over other more attractive women. Denzel? MC Hammer? That's about it. Everybody else ... pretty women. Let's just be real.

The more I think about it though, maybe both processes are natural. Men seeking the most beautiful. Women seeking the most fit whether that's financial or otherwise. Natural selection. Go after what we want most and deal with that other stuff later. Usually in a disastrous fashion.
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I understand no one wants somebody unattractive, is there a shortage of
attractive women with character?

Panther88 said:
Yes, we are a victim of our desires physically for the most part.
Ummmmm Crittah--------cal? :confused:
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This makes us sorta like simpletons don't ya think?
I mean we talk about how women make bad choices, but look @ us
chasing after that chicks booty, no matter what kinda woman its attached to.
 
97JSULEGEND said:
True look at these dudes in the NFL with 8-10 kids...SMH Janoris Jenkins got booted from Florida, then North Alamabam and would have been a 1st round draft pick father 4 kids by three women in the last year...SMH..Pretty face and body will get most every time...

Thing is the midlevel to ugly chicks will work you like a mule...You just cant look in they eyes...LOL
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97JSULEGEND said:
True look at these dudes in the NFL with 8-10 kids...SMH Janoris Jenkins got booted from Florida, then North Alamabam and would have been a 1st round draft pick father 4 kids by three women in the last year...SMH..Pretty face and body will get most every time...

Thing is the midlevel to ugly chicks will work you like a mule...You just cant look in they eyes...LOL
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so if that pretty face and body chick with no character ,take all our money. we should'nt complain right, cause it's all our fault?
 



Tony said:
is there a shortage of
attractive women with character?
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I don't think so. I know quite a few attractive women who are single, got good jobs, spiritual, well-rounded and have good personalities. What I don't know is how they treat their men. I think there are some good, attractive people out there- men and women- but may not know how to get/keep a significant other. :noidea:
 
CriTAUcal said:
I don't think so. I know quite a few attractive women who are single, got good jobs, spiritual, well-rounded and have good personalities. What I don't know is how they treat their men. I think there are some good, attractive people out there- men and women- but may not know how to get/keep a significant other. :noidea:
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where they @?
where they @?
where they @?
 
buckwheat1911 said:
He said that to you after you were married or before? Just asking. I wouldn't have dared say that to my wife.
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This was from my ex/high school sweetheart who I'm still close to. And yes, he said this after we were no longer together. I've seen two other women he's been with, and both had pretty faces.
 
SUJagFan said:
I think there is a shortage of people with character, in general. Men and women regardless of appearance.
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Interesting.......


I think there are a lot of women and men out there with good character; they just aren't noticed because they're overlooked by folks looking for the face, physique, and finance.


But as you said, SUJF, it is natural to want what is attractively appealing.....
 
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