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Originally posted by GSU Spirit
Let's have Pantro's wife tell us how happily married she is.
Originally posted by Panthro
Thou shalt not lie.
Y'all know dayam well that you wanna' be married w/ 3-4 chillun' w/ the big house and the big benzo and the big pool and the fine husband that caters to your every need. You were raised like that.
Stop fronting. LOL :emlaugh:
Originally posted by jag4life
Man, when they get that man (minus the Benzo) some of them act a damn fool.
Originally posted by Dtown Jag
Are you still talking about your baby's mama?
LOL
Originally posted by GSU Spirit
Let's have Pantro's wife tell us how happily married she is.
Originally posted by Panthro
Ask her. She'll tell you that I wasn't her "ideal" man when she met me, but she saw the growth potential and 12 total carats later (LOL), she found out that I was well enough. :emlaugh:
What you NEED to do is ask one of my <u>girlfriends</u> how happy they are. Smart azz. LOL
Originally posted by Dr. Sweet NUPE
Most women don't have those qualification.
Originally posted by cat daddy
:lmao:
Panthro school these single women. So many women who are young and can get any man they want kick good men to the curb all the time. But when they get older and that clock is ticking so loud it wakes them in their sleep, then they want to complain that they can't find a good man. Hell, you passed up on many good guys and now some good sense sista, half as cute and fine as you has scooped that man up!!!
My wife will also tell you in a minute that I did not fit the "profile", but she had the sense to know that I was more than just Mr. Right Now!!! :swink:
Originally posted by Panthro
and 12 total carats later (LOL), she found out that I was well enough.
Originally posted by Seeing Spots
So I guess you guys know ALL women. Some of your statements have been right on target and I know they are antedoctal.
One thing, men also REQUIRE certain "kinds" of women. Most men you guys age only "holla" at women without children, really want a virgin, but want to have sex without being married. Most men want women who are light complected with blow hair and FINNNNNNNNNNE. You never even CONSIDER a large woman, not matter how pretty, intelligent, and MS. RIGHT she is. Every woman that you guys have posted on this forum have been no darker than caramel, and the same is true of the girls in rap videos and other images.
So don't trip that all WE have "strigent" standards. You guys want a girl who has not slept around, but will freak YOU and who has a 19 inch waist and 36DDs.
I agree with some of what the guys said and you are right there are MANY (not all or most) women who are hos and gold diggers. But there are some good women who are out there, but you never give them a thought because they don't look like the TSPN sig girls.
Originally posted by Seeing Spots
So I guess you guys know ALL women. Some of your statements have been right on target and I know they are antedoctal.
One thing, men also REQUIRE certain "kinds" of women. Most men you guys age only "holla" at women without children, really want a virgin, but want to have sex without being married. Most men want women who are light complected with blow hair and FINNNNNNNNNNE. You never even CONSIDER a large woman, not matter how pretty, intelligent, and MS. RIGHT she is. Every woman that you guys have posted on this forum have been no darker than caramel, and the same is true of the girls in rap videos and other images.
So don't trip that all WE have "strigent" standards. You guys want a girl who has not slept around, but will freak YOU and who has a 19 inch waist and 36DDs.
I agree with some of what the guys said and you are right there are MANY (not all or most) women who are hos and gold diggers. But there are some good women who are out there, but you never give them a thought because they don't look like the TSPN sig girls.
Originally posted by Vinita
*Waiting for some I-Dot thinking with the wrong brain to come back and speak on Jackie's statement ... and wondering who's gonna be DEFENSIVE then ...*
Originally posted by Vinita
How the hell you figure the shy cutie in the corner is gonna want to be bothered with your ass after you been ogling the ho dancing on the bar?
Originally posted by Vinita
I don't know who the ***** hollared at before he came my way, nor have I ever spent an inordinate amount of time gawking at some ho who had to have half her ass hung out at the club to get chose, NOR do I give a damn who has.
Originally posted by Panthro
This is the older single woman look right here----> :retard:
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:shame:
Originally posted by Seeing Spots
N,
If I can get in the middle of you and Niter's conversation, what she is talking about is that you say at the club you spend the night looking at the fine sister showing all her stuff and then when it is time to go home you reject her and choose the shy one in the corner and that is foul. You have said nothing to the shy one, ignored her, didn't dance with her, talk to her because you were engaged with the other woman. How is it that you expect a positive reaction at the end of the set from the shy girl?
<font color=maroon>No...you got it all wrong.
If the woman wears stuff like that in a club to be seen, I WILL see it....EVERYONE will. I did not say that I would spend the whole night looking at her, so you can dismiss that portion.
*I* don't pick up girls in clubs, but I know partners who do, and they do NOT try to hook up when they first get there....the females don't either.
I did not mention anything about dancing, so you're making blind assumptions. For the record, that is probably the best way to break the ice with the shy woman.
And why do both of y'all automatically assume that she has been watching YOu the whole night? Let Nita tell it, she eyeing on dude the entire time. But if she was, there probably is an interest on her part, therefore....why should she be disgusted if he approaches her???
Everybody saw Miss Mine Skirt (including her)...why should dude have closed his eyes when she walked by???
I can hear it now:
"Uuuugh! That dude cute, but he didn't turn his head when that girl walked by! I saw her, but HOW DARE he look at her. I will NEVER talk to HIM...even though the entire club saw that chick. He better NOT try to holla!" </font> :look:
That's the great paradox men present to us. Dress like a ho, act like a ho and you are the "belle of the ball". The shy one sits in the corner and gets no play until it's time to go home, where she will be expected to dress like a ho, act like a ho but only for him.
<font color=maroon> Once again...all out context! :smh:
I didn't mention anything about him just trying to hit.
If that was the only purpose, wouldn't it make more since to come at the hoe in the short skirt??? :xeye:
I mean dang...why can't he have an INTEREST in the shy woman? Y'all usually complain when a man ONLY wants to hit, yet that's the first thing that comes to your mind without him providing any reasoning for that. :lol:
Like I said before, some women are good ONLY to look at (ie. shorty in the skirt), but others are worth putting legitimate time towards (the shy one).
Why are y'all acting like this was started last year or something?</font>
And I am all for preferences...I freely admit I have them. I like HIGH YELLA men, ain't no secret and GREEN EYES just so sexy to me. In my first single life one of my best friends was high yella and she hated high yella men, she called them "mutts". She liked JET BLACK men! But I have and will date, love, and marry a dark skinned brother who meets the standards GASP of Godliness, Family Oriented (I have a child), Good Sense of Humor. They only preference that I just really hold to is HEIGHT, I mean in the 6th grade my boyfriend was 6ft. tall!! LOL I don't know a little SHORTY might be the gift, so I'm open minded in my search
<font color=maroon>I don't view that as a STANDARD...I view that as a PREFERENCE. There IS a difference... </font>
And well, there is another er er REQUIREMENT, but we already discussed that in our forum.
<font color=maroon>Can this "requirement" legitimately be verified without any prior contact with said brotha???
If not....you may want to talk to self about a supposed paradox..</font>