jsupop33
Loyalty & Respect
Talking about your body, not your mind bruh. Two different things.
Are People Monogamus By Nature?
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Talking about your body, not your mind bruh. Two different things.
I thought mind and body were inseparable when it comes to relations.
jsupop33
Loyalty & Respect
I agree that in the end, your mind determines what you do your body reacts to stuff without you thinking about it.
pbla
Focus
I agree. Deep down in our pituitary gland that is located in our brain is a program that determines who we are attracted to.That little sucker make it tough to be monogamus.
Anyway, read somewhere that attraction is not a choice. Attraction and choice are two differenct things. Sometimes people confused the two. Physical and even mental attraction is something humans cannot control..but we can choose because of our differences in style,status or our personal taste. I have been attracted to sistahs who were str8 up hoodrats physically and they were beautiful but their style was way over the top for me. So I chose not to deal with them...could not help my physical attraction towards them but my experience with people told me not to"go that route". lol So the physical program in my pitutary gland made my SPOON harder than a rock....but my intellect and experience said you better slow yo roll partner.
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pbla
Focus
So true...
I remember when ISEECOLOR's Grown&Sexy Lounge was hot. The women on there express themselves very openly and were brutally honest about relationships. One sistah I forgot her screen name but she was fine as all outdoors..(like LisaRaye) and her point was she tell fellas that she is not monogagmus and she have to have variety. Basically she said she ain't the marrying type. But she brought up another point to the fellas who agreed that we are not monogamus by nature and some people are not the marrying type..Why degrade the women and called them ho's if you agree with the idea of variety?
PVSAX99
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I do NOT believe that it is in our instinctive nature to be monogamous. We CAN be barbaric but nature and result to following our raw instinct (screw that "evolution" jargon for a minute. However, civic stipulations and social rules seem to prohibit us from acting on our instincts in that manner...and monogamy is a rule of our society.
unknown
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lol... a lot of truth to that statement.
CriTAUcal
Do Good; Good Follows
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CEE DOG
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I mean Crit, the problem is not the women on 2011. it is the men. Women wanna have good, freaky, wild, boom banging, hair sweating out, leg shaking, butt being slapped, puddin throbbing, getting down to the floor, can't get up sex. The problem is 90% of the men in the world are immature to have it and recognize yall want it also and accept it.
kellis
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Tpop33
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Ken, I agree with JSU on this. This is my main issue with homosexuality and lesbianism. These two groups can not propagate. It aint happening.
Now back on topic, if you look at other societies, past or present, look at the number of wives these men sometimes have, it's not always about having a long family lineage, sometimes it is just about sex. And another poster (I thing DA) already said, we have conditioned ourselves to view polygamy especially when it is solely sex; as wrong.
Well, you know some people think that way due to religious beliefs. It is the same reason why many don't approve of homosexuality. I think the religious component can't be overlook when discussing how sexual behaviors are viewed.
jsupop33
Loyalty & Respect
I don't think he was. He was just saying that those are learned behaviors and views. Religous beliefs are learned. Personally, I think that is the beauty of Christianity, the submission of personal desires to the Will of God.
That is what I say and people don't believe in destiny :noidea:--People don't realize that there is an innate nature in all of us, but the thing is they differ, that pulls us or DRAWS US towards REALITY (what ever that reality is), and in some case it is from the MOST EXTREME DESIRES, AND THERE IS NO SECOND THOUGHTS ABOUT IT!
dacontinent
Preacher
You need to meet and know more guys with better ethical standards.
dacontinent
Preacher
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Well, if Pops just happens to know people who are involved in those activities, then that's not totally his fault.
Besides, nobody on this planet ever really chooses each other. I mean, it's all a question of quantum physics, molecular attraction, and timing.
There are laws we don't understand that bring us together and tear us apart. It's like pheromones. You get three ants together, they can't do anything. You get 300 million of them, they can build a cathedral.
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When it comes to the dating game in Russia, it really is a man's world. There are 10 million more women than men in the country, forcing some to turn to unconventional methods to find love. Even if that means a sharing and compromise.
Andrey is a father of three. And a husband of three. Eleven years ago, Andrey got married. Two years on he proposed again. And then again.
His reasoning is simple: “Why should I refuse any of them if I love them all?â€
They may not be a four-member family from a legal standpoint, since it the law has no place for polygamous marriages, but in all other regards they live as one.
The country’s demographic is on Andrey's side. The shortage of males leads to the need for sharing – a concept that Andrey's wives say they have made peace with.
“I thought he was kidding. But then I realized that he wasn’t. I never expected something like this happening to me, but we’ve all got used to it, you know. If you love – you’ll understand. We never fight for Andrey, never quarrel; there is no any kind of competition either,†says Olesya, Andrey’s first wife.
http://rt.com/news/russia-three-andrey-love/
Andrey is a father of three. And a husband of three. Eleven years ago, Andrey got married. Two years on he proposed again. And then again.
His reasoning is simple: “Why should I refuse any of them if I love them all?â€
They may not be a four-member family from a legal standpoint, since it the law has no place for polygamous marriages, but in all other regards they live as one.
The country’s demographic is on Andrey's side. The shortage of males leads to the need for sharing – a concept that Andrey's wives say they have made peace with.
“I thought he was kidding. But then I realized that he wasn’t. I never expected something like this happening to me, but we’ve all got used to it, you know. If you love – you’ll understand. We never fight for Andrey, never quarrel; there is no any kind of competition either,†says Olesya, Andrey’s first wife.
http://rt.com/news/russia-three-andrey-love/
unknown
New Member
I think you need to be more in terms with reality. If you're basing this on religion I can take you to any church in America and I guarantee youll find as many cheaters as you will on the streets. Having been to a ton of different ones ive seen it all. There's a reason a lot of men say that there are more freaks in the church than any club. And the ton of stories of priests, pastors, etc getting caught up is just the tip of the iceberg. And its not like the person is going to TELL you they've done it anyways. The last church I went to there were so many affairs going on it was just pitiful. At the end of the day those folks are human in nature just like everyone else.
unknown
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Dude, what?