What Makes A Woman Run Away From A man?





#1. Poor Communicator (if you can't hold stimulating conversation (or always share your true feelings), my interest will drop real quick-- no matter how fine you are.)
Arrogance
Bad hygiene and doesn't care about physical appearance
Immaturity
No drive or ambition
Dishonest
Disloyal
Spiritually lost


Flip everything above, and I'll stick around.

And let me add: He needs to be genuinely kind-hearted to people- and not just me. I don't want a man who is good to me, because he's wants to please or impress me. He needs to be a good person, because that's just who he is. A kind heart, true compassion for others and his community and a Jesus Chaser (a [daily] praying man) are turn ons.
 
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CriTAUcal said:
#1. Poor Communicator (if you can't hold stimulating conversation, my interest will drop real quick-- no matter how fine you are.)
Arrogance
Bad hygiene and doesn't care about physical appearance
Immaturity
No drive or ambition
Dishonest
Disloyal
Spiritually lost


Flip everything above, and I'll stick around.

And let me add: He needs to be genuinely kind-hearted to people- and not just me. I don't want a man who is good to me, because he's wants to please or impress me. He needs to be a good person, because that's just who he is. A kind heart, true compassion for others and his community and a Jesus Chaser (a [daily] praying man) are turn ons.
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What do you mean by arrogance? Give me an example. :)
 
... Just kidding... sorta.
Somebody who thinks they know everything and looks down on others. Or talks down to people.
 
For me:
1. Cruelty/Domestic Violence
2. Disrespectfulness
3. Bad losers and those who don't fight fair...even though you're their partner
4. Addicts...of any kind cause its just a matter of time before other addictions join the first...
5. Low sex drive--4+/week ought to be mandatory :D
6. inability to make me a priority
7. Poor hygiene
8. Being over 35 and having nothing--borrowing cars, living with a roommate, piece-of-job, not a career--but they haven't been incarcerated, no big illness...just messed off their income

Give me time...there are more. :tup:
 
chocalate_topaz said:
For me:
1. Cruelty/Domestic Violence
2. Disrespectfulness
3. Bad losers and those who don't fight fair...even though you're their partner
4. Addicts...of any kind cause its just a matter of time before other addictions join the first...
5. Low sex drive--4+/week ought to be mandatory :D
6. inability to make me a priority
7. Poor hygiene
8. Being over 35 and having nothing--borrowing cars, living with a roommate, piece-of-job, not a career--but they haven't been incarcerated, no big illness...just messed off their income

Give me time...there are more. :tup:
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Good ones, good ones! :tup: :tup:
 
I can respect that. Great points. Any man over 30 should be able to comply with that list. :tup:
chocalate_topaz said:
For me:
1. Cruelty/Domestic Violence
2. Disrespectfulness
3. Bad losers and those who don't fight fair...even though you're their partner
4. Addicts...of any kind cause its just a matter of time before other addictions join the first...
5. Low sex drive--4+/week ought to be mandatory :D
6. inability to make me a priority
7. Poor hygiene
8. Being over 35 and having nothing--borrowing cars, living with a roommate, piece-of-job, not a career--but they haven't been incarcerated, no big illness...just messed off their income

Give me time...there are more. :tup:
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CEE DOG said:
Sad state of affairs in our community Crit. These cats aren't raised to work hard any more. They think they to pretty. Even the ugly ones. :lol:
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Shameful! :smh: :lol:

It's truth though. I know there are a lot of brothas with the careers and doing well for themselves. But I have met some bustas who don't have their stuff together, and they're over the age of 30.


I met someone a few weeks back who is 34. Well, first he told me 33 and then finally 35. :smh: Guess he didn't think I would keep up with his lies. :lol: And YES, I will ask you the same questions more than once at different times- Not that I'm forgetful BUT just to see if you can keep up with your lies or can actually be truthful! Anyway, he said he was a "promotions manager for an entertainment media group." Hmmmmmm, Ok. TRANSLATION: I pass out club flyers. :emlaugh: Then he wanted to meet up at Ruby Tuesday but it had to be at 8 p.m. Why? 'Cause he had to wait on someone to bring him a car. See what's out there in the 30+ group?! :lol:
 
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Shameful! :smh: :lol:

It's truth though. I know there are a lot of brothas with the careers and doing well for themselves. But I have met some bustas who don't have their stuff together, and they're over the age of 30.


I met someone a few weeks back who is 34. Well, first he hold me 33 and then finally 35. :smh: Guess he didn't think I would keep up with his lies. :lol: Anyway, he said he was a "promotions manager for an entertainment media group." Hmmmmmm, Ok. TRANSLATION: I pass out club flyers. :emlaugh: Then he wanted to meet up at Ruby Tuesday but it had to be at 8 p.m. Why? 'Cause he had to wait on someone to bring him a car. See what's out there in the 30+ group?! :lol:
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naggas love to dress shat up
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CriTAUcal said:
Shameful! :smh: :lol:

It's truth though. I know there are a lot of brothas with the careers and doing well for themselves. But I have met some bustas who don't have their stuff together, and they're over the age of 30.


I met someone a few weeks back who is 34. Well, first he told me 33 and then finally 35. :smh: Guess he didn't think I would keep up with his lies. :lol: Anyway, he said he was a "promotions manager for an entertainment media group." Hmmmmmm, Ok. TRANSLATION: I pass out club flyers. :emlaugh: Then he wanted to meet up at Ruby Tuesday but it had to be at 8 p.m. Why? 'Cause he had to wait on someone to bring him a car. See what's out there in the 30+ group?! :lol:
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He's living with his momma and wanted to borrow her car. You sure it wasnt my step son?
 
CriTAUcal said:
Shameful! :smh: :lol:

It's truth though. I know there are a lot of brothas with the careers and doing well for themselves. But I have met some bustas who don't have their stuff together, and they're over the age of 30.


I met someone a few weeks back who is 34. Well, first he told me 33 and then finally 35. :smh: Guess he didn't think I would keep up with his lies. :lol: And YES, I will ask you the same questions more than once at different times- Not that I'm forgetful BUT just to see if you can keep up with your lies or can actually be truthful! Anyway, he said he was a "promotions manager for an entertainment media group." Hmmmmmm, Ok. TRANSLATION: I pass out club flyers. :emlaugh: Then he wanted to meet up at Ruby Tuesday but it had to be at 8 p.m. Why? 'Cause he had to wait on someone to bring him a car. See what's out there in the 30+ group?! :lol:
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Bighead said:
naggas love to dress shat up
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Blacknbengal said:
He's living with his momma and wanted to borrow her car. You sure it wasnt my step son?
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:smh: and :lmao:
 
Thought of some more:

Have a STD
Unable to put me first over his mama (when married)
Shows signs of mistreating his own mother--cussing her, dissing her, gets phyical with her (pushing, shoving) when upset
Has a lot of kids by different mothers...
His sex is a bust (sorry, but I like good sex guys. got to bring your A game)
 
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