Reading signs of attraction


Warndalyn said:
Why don't you tell/ask her these same questions? I know I would, unless you just like the attention.
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I’m not even tryin’ to go there with her.
When I’m workin’ I try my best to keep it 100% professional
That’s why I’m always on here clowning around for the
stress release

Besides you know how you ladies talk, if it appears
I’m getin’ too personal with one, the others
Get jealous and people start acting crazy
 
Tony said:
That’s what I figured,
But she brags on her husband alot, so I’m like
Why don’t she drink wine with him,
And not worry bout what I’m doing?
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It's a front, baby! :lol:
But just to be sure, why don't you ask her if she's really "happy", since she speaks on him so much. And see what her response is. Ask her when the both of ya'll got a few minutes to chat and watch her open up.
 



CriTAUcal said:
It's a front, baby! :lol:
But just to be sure, why don't you ask her if she's really "happy", since she speaks on him so much. And see what her response is. Ask her when the both of ya'll got a few minutes to chat and watch her open up.
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yeah, she be lookin' @ me kinda hard
I can tell things ain't right on the home front
what she really needs is a G like me to beat it beat it beat it

lol!

I know!!

what if i say something like

"hey I was just sitting here thinkin', do you have any single friends
that might wanna go out with me?"
 
Tony said:
yeah, she be lookin' @ me kinda hard
I can tell things ain't right on the home front
what she really needs is a G like me to beat it beat it beat it

lol!

I know!!

what if i say something like

"hey I was just sitting here thinkin', do you have any single friends
that might wanna go out with me?"
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Yeah, say that Tony and watch how she quickly denies that none of them are good for you. Then you ask, "Well, what type of woman is good for me?" :xeye: And she'll quickly describe someone like herself. Then, you'll say, "You?!" And she'll say, "Yeah, why?" Then you'll laugh like this : :lol: :lmao: :bawling:


Then she'll walk away mad like this :angry: And you'll never have to worry about her flirting with you again. :)
 
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Tony said:
I’m not even tryin’ to go there with her.
When I’m workin’ I try my best to keep it 100% professional
That’s why I’m always on here clowning around for the
stress release

Besides you know how you ladies talk, if it appears
I’m getin’ too personal with one, the others
Get jealous and people start acting crazy
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Well, it seems y'all talk pretty often anyway, so I'd take that oppotunity to ask her about her home situation, as Crit suggested up there. Or, do you just pretty much igg her ass when she comes around? I'd think you're entertaining her in some fashion if she's always willing to talk to you.
 
Tony said:
yeah, she be lookin' @ me kinda hard
I can tell things ain't right on the home front
what she really needs is a G like me to beat it beat it beat it

lol!

I know!!

what if i say something like

"hey I was just sitting here thinkin', do you have any single friends
that might wanna go out with me?"
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Go 'head and play with fire, OK? :lol: Do you really wanna mess with a married chick who is seeking sex and attention?
 
Blacknbengal said:
Yeah, say that Tony and watch how she quickly denies that none of them are good for you. Then you ask, "Well, what type of woman is good for me?" :xeye: And she'll quickly describe someone like herself. Then, you'll say, "You?!" And she'll say, "Yeah, why?" Then you'll laugh like this : :lol: :lmao: :bawling:


Then she'll walk away mad like this :angry: And you'll never have to worry about her flirting with you again. :)
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Nah, Crazy doesn't walk away that easily. She's invested time. She's looking to recoup the time she's put in by slowly letting him know he can get the goods. :lol:
 
CriTAUcal said:
Nah, Crazy doesn't walk away that easily. She's invested time. She's looking to recoup the time she's put in by slowly letting him know he can get the goods. :lol:
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Basically...I consider that "sweatin" a dude and I just ain't gonna do that. LOL
 
Tony said:
Yeah she speaks to me even when she’s really too far away to be speaking to someone

Someone gave me a bottle of wine for a Christmas present once, and she saw it on my desk

and immediatly started asking questions

And I said “yeah I’ll sit back and relax this weekend with it”

She goes “why wait till the weekend, where do you live we can drink it this evening”

I just gave a blank stare.
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In my best Fred Sanford voice, "Is you retarded you big dummy!" :shame: Her draws are already half-way off. :lol: She is obviously feeling you..even Stevie Wonder can see this! :lmao:
 
Warndalyn said:
Well, it seems y'all talk pretty often anyway, so I'd take that oppotunity to ask her about her home situation, as Crit suggested up there. Or, do you just pretty much igg her ass when she comes around? I'd think you're entertaining her in some fashion if she's always willing to talk to you.
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How you gonna just ask about somebody’s home life?

I think the problem is yes I do igg her all the time and
Almost every other man black or white seem
To fall over them selves when she’s near

I think she’s use to getting attention from men
Every where she goes
But it’s like I got too many responsibilities
To be studying a married chick, that likes to flirt.

But it seems the more I igg the more she flirts

Even to the point where she suggested once I walk her to her car when it got dark.

No Ma’am call security, I’m not walking no woman, married, engaged, with boyfriend nothing to no car
Because soon as they see my bright azz they gonna be mad as hell

now I'm into it over a chick I don't even want. nope won't happen.
 
CriTAUcal said:
Nah, Crazy doesn't walk away that easily. She's invested time. She's looking to recoup the time she's put in by slowly letting him know he can get the goods. :lol:
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Yup! Sho nuff! :nod: Her ass is gon catch him in the parking garage one night and put him in the back seat! :lmao: Watch out Toney! That poohsay got a radar on it and it's tracking yo ass! :lmao:
 



CriTAUcal said:
Nah, Crazy doesn't walk away that easily. She's invested time. She's looking to recoup the time she's put in by slowly letting him know he can get the goods. :lol:
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:uhoh: Oh. Well Tony, the only thing I can tell you is to RRRRRRRRRUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!
 
Tony said:
How you gonna just ask about somebody’s home life?

I think the problem is yes I do igg her all the time and
Almost every other man black or white seem
To fall over them selves when she’s near

I think she’s use to getting attention from men
Every where she goes
But it’s like I got too many responsibilities
To be studying a married chick, that likes to flirt.

But it seems the more I igg the more she flirts

Even to the point where she suggested once I walk her to her car when it got dark.

No Ma’am call security, I’m not walking no woman, married, engaged, with boyfriend nothing to no car
Because soon as they see my bright azz they gonna be mad as hell

now I'm into it over a chick I don't even want. nope won't happen.
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Ummmm, you said ALL that to say what? I secretly wanna hit it but I'm scared?
 
coldsweat said:
Yup! Sho nuff! :nod: Her ass is gon catch him in the parking garage one night and put him in the back seat! :lmao: Watch out Toney! That poohsay got a radar on it and it's tracking yo ass! :lmao:
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Yep! :lol: She wearing him down. That's why he's on here talking about it. He's entertaining the thought a little. :lol:
 
Warndalyn said:
Why don't you tell/ask her these same questions? I know I would, unless you just like the attention.
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Tony said:
How you gonna just ask about somebody’s home life?

I think the problem is yes I do igg her all the time and
Almost every other man black or white seem
To fall over them selves when she’s near

I think she’s use to getting attention from men
Every where she goes
But it’s like I got too many responsibilities
To be studying a married chick, that likes to flirt.

But it seems the more I igg the more she flirts

Even to the point where she suggested once I walk her to her car when it got dark.

No Ma’am call security, I’m not walking no woman, married, engaged, with boyfriend nothing to no car
Because soon as they see my bright azz they gonna be mad as hell

now I'm into it over a chick I don't even want. nope won't happen.
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You must enjoy the attention she's giving you to some degree b/c not one time have you said that you've pointed out TO HER that she's married & should be giving her husband the compliments & suggestions she gives to you. Nope you may not want her, but you seem to enjoy the compliments. I say talk to her & let her know how you feel. Telling us will not change or make your situation easier or make her go away for that matter.
 
coldsweat said:
Yup! Sho nuff! :nod: Her ass is gon catch him in the parking garage one night and put him in the back seat! :lmao: Watch out Toney! That poohsay got a radar on it and it's tracking yo ass! :lmao:
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that thang fine to boyyyy LOL!!!!
Now you know if she was uGly I wouldn't even be postin' about it ..lol!!


BUT even if she was single I don't get involved with chicks anywhere near my professional life.

BUT
if I did it would be the reverse Harlen Nights

She'd be sayin'

"Hello, Lester I ain't never coming home!!!"

:lol:
 
Tony said:
that thang fine to boyyyy LOL!!!!
Now you know if she was uGly I wouldn't even be postin' about it ..lol!!


BUT even if she was single I don't get involved with chicks anywhere near my professional life.

BUT
if I did it would be the reverse Harlen Nights

She'd be sayin'

"Hello, Lester I ain't never coming home!!!"

:lol:
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yup, just as we thought...she's gettin to your ass. It's just a matter of time...you won't come on here and post about it tho, cuz she's married but it's all good. We understand...do you and her! :D
 
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