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CEE DOG said:
How do you know I don't study this? :read: I do have over six degrees my dear..........
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6 degrees of mental illness?? :nod: And if they are ed degrees...you REAL UPPITY. :lmao: I mean, one wouldn't do? :lol: Just kidding...I'm all for higher ed :tup:

Study? staring at it- visual inspection
tasting/sniffing it- Olfatory examinatinon
pumping it- palpation

:idea: You are correct! :rolleyes:
 
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Y'all truly don't think dating for 4+ years and it doesn't end in marriage wasn't a HUGE waste of time? And 10? Ain't no fugging way...
 
chocalate_topaz said:
Y'all truly don't think dating for 4+ years and it doesn't end in marriage wasn't a HUGE waste of time? And 10? Ain't no fugging way...
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Why does marriage have to be the end be all? A couple could just have a "situation" these days. There isn't a law written anywhere that sez a man just has to marry. :confused:

I guess I'm alluding to being non-exclusive. Live and let live is my motto. Do you and more power to you. :tup:
 
Panther88 said:
Why does marriage have to be the end be all? A couple could just have a "situation" these days. There isn't a law written anywhere that sez a man just has to marry. :confused:

I guess I'm alluding to being non-exclusive. Live and let live is my motto. Do you and more power to you. :tup:
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True..............And I'm living proof of it. :lol:

But what I am saying is if I'm dating someone for 3 years, and we living together or whatever, WHY NOT get married if it's that serious or ya'll "clicking" that good together. You date that same woman for 7 more years, having kids, living under the same roof, you could have been married 7 of those 10 years. If we ain't married after 3, years 4-10 was just wasted energy and a whole lot of other prospects done passed you by.

Besides.
If I'm going to turn down fine azz woman after fine azz woman for the next 10 years because I got someone at home, you better believe the one at home will have MY ring, THAT I BOUGHT and got no damm thank you card for---(MARTIN) :lol:, on her finger.
 
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CEE DOG said:
I know plenty of women in their 40's having babies with out medical help........
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Dayum that....I'ain tryin to be in my 40's chasing a 2 year old around. :xeye: :lol:

jsupop33 said:
Especially if you stay in a city like ATL. why would you rush to get married in a city with ratio that lopsided of women to men. Fine, in-shape black women too.
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:rolleyes:

That's why the dating game is ALL fucced up now.....especially when u have ugly men here in da A tryin to get an attitude. :emlaugh: :smh:


Warndalyn said:
I'm glad you find that humorous...you need to seek some help because the way you post about women on this board is NOT healthy....seriously!
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I mean, really. :lol: and :smh:
 
Panther88 said:
Why does marriage have to be the end be all? A couple could just have a "situation" these days. There isn't a law written anywhere that sez a man just has to marry. :confused:

I guess I'm alluding to being non-exclusive. Live and let live is my motto. Do you and more power to you. :tup:
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I'm sure CT realizes there are some people (men and women) that just don't want to be married so I don't think this thread was started about them.

But if one person in the relationship is expecting a marriage out of it...then it's not okay for the other person to drag dating out forever based on the reason of "I'm not ready". GTFOH.

Clearly...that is a HUGE flag to the other person that this person does not want to be married EVER. *shrugs*
 
CriTAUcal said:
You mean with all that education, you still don't the difference between "won't" and "want"?
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Didn't George Bush get elected President twice by Americans who were smarter than him? He held the highest position in the world with a 2.0 GPA. :emlaugh:
 
Aye vette, you should see my uncle and his wife. She is 48 and he is 55 with a two year old. Unc don't even try to stop that lil bad joker. :lol: he just look at him. :lmao:
yvette23 said:
Dayum that....I'ain tryin to be in my 40's chasing a 2 year old around. :xeye: :lol:


:rolleyes:

That's why the dating game is ALL fucced up now.....especially when u have ugly men here in da A tryin to get an attitude. :emlaugh: :smh:




I mean, really. :lol: and :smh:
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Some of yall just need to realize you ain't got no good stuff.............. It ain't all gold you know.......
 
southsuburbs said:
I'm sure CT realizes there are some people (men and women) that just don't want to be married so I don't think this thread was started about them.

But if one person in the relationship is expecting a marriage out of it...then it's not okay for the other person to drag dating out forever based on the reason of "I'm not ready". GTFOH.

Clearly...that is a HUGE flag to the other person that this person does not want to be married EVER. *shrugs*
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Yeh, but when you're meeting someone for the first time, no one is walking around w/ a billboard strapped to them saying "I WANNA' GET MARRIED." Wish that were the case though. Would help solve a lot of unnecessary problems and issues up front.

I guess for me, I see nothing wrong w/ being around someone, notice, I didn't say "dating," for a few w/ zero expectations in that matrimony dept or <b>exclusitivity</b> deal. :tup:
 
Honestly, I don't think people are wasting their time by dating for four years. What if you start young?

I mean if a person starts dating at 18 and 5 years in, they are only 23, they may know that they want to marry her but just ain't ready. Then, you graduate, search for a job, try to get your credit in order, etc... Sometimes it takes a while. Personally, I need another promotion before I start that process. I have actually considered getting engaged for our fifth year but I would still need another 2 years before marriage. I have a lot I want to accomplish in these next few years.
 
who seriously dates at 18? And ask a woman you've dated for 10 years and didn't marry if she thinks it was a waste of time...:tup:
 
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