Response to Lady Rebel on open relationship


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I guess I was just a pimp in my days because I have always been under the golden rule that you let a women set it out if she wants too. Now you might not be my main chick, but you shole can be my side chick. :pimp: Plus dating ain't never really been dating. Let's be honest, if a rang ain't on your finger, I can and will do what I want to do.
 



players said:
:lol::lol::lol:
people these days want someone that already matches their vision of the perfect mate to simplly walk into their lives and sweep them off their feet.
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you think women even know what they want?

You could make a thread askin' women what they
want in a mate and probably get no responses..lol....
 
ok gotcha....


is this any type of relationship? @ The person impersonating Players

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8 to 5 said:
Please tell me..yall aint referencing things Steve Harvey say. looooooool
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:lol: I think he was referencing both Steve Harvey and Steven A.'s ability to be very very blunt about their topics or discussions of choice, at least I hope cause thats what I took.
 
XHALE9802 said:
:lol: I think he was referencing both Steve Harvey and Steven A.'s ability to be very very blunt about their topics or discussions of choice, at least I hope cause thats what I took.
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Exactly...

Them 2 would have been way more blunt than B....
 
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Topics like this made this guy the easiest money he ever made in his life. Yall betta start publishing these essays yall writing on here. Its a damn shame.:shame:

Cee, you can get paid man...:lol:
 
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8 to 5 said:
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Topics like this made this guy the easiest money he ever made in his life Yall betta start publishing these essays yall writing on here. Its a damn shame.:shame:

Cee, you can get paid man...:lol:
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Aye bruh, I just give the people what they want. :lecture: :lol:
 
jsupop33 said:
They found someone on the terms they liked and it didn't work. The same can be said for Lady Rebel. It is all the same. To try and make someone believe that the type of relationship they like is considered "settling for less" is just silly.

If someone was really concerned with Lady Rebel's Well being, they could have sent her a PM. You can't really believe that a person calls a person out on a public message board with intentions of "helping."
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I was not trying to call her out or make her feel bad. I was really trying to apologize if she thought I meant her harm. I thought you were shaking your head because of a grammatical error. I started a new thread because she asked me what I meant about the porn star remark and I was trying to answer. I have had this same discussion with my step-daughter. She has this dude making a fool out of her and this open relationship crap is his line. That is why I got so involved. I guess this is how I was letting out my frustrations. She is 28 years old and there is nothing I can do about it. She pays no attention to me until she wants some money. Which she gives to him and there is really nothing I can do about that other than say no. Go back maybe 20 years ago I would not have cared. But I have made my share of mistakes in my life. Some of them are life changing and I am still paying for them now. Some women I have hurt for no reason but just to satisfy my huge but very fragile ego. That’s a h** move. It took me a long time to really appreciate the finer qualities of a woman. My point I am trying to make there is no such thing as an open relationship. If two adults are just physical (fu$k buddies) that’s fine. It’s not a relationship, an understanding maybe but not a relationship. A relationship is closed, exclusive, fully committed. I said it earlier an open relationship is an oxymoron like committed fu$k buddies. It maybe it’s all about word usage to you and others. I am just trying to share something that I call wisdom. You can only get wisdom through living
 
bigmanofds said:
I was not trying to call her out or make her feel bad. I was really trying to apologize if she thought I meant her harm. I thought you were shaking your head because of a grammatical error. I started a new thread because she asked me what I meant about the porn star remark and I was trying to answer. I have had this same discussion with my step-daughter. She has this dude making a fool out of her and this open relationship crap is his line. That is why I got so involved. I guess this is how I was letting out my frustrations. She is 28 years old and there is nothing I can do about it. She pays no attention to me until she wants some money. Which she gives to him and there is really nothing I can do about that other than say no. Go back maybe 20 years ago I would not have cared. But I have made my share of mistakes in my life. Some of them are life changing and I am still paying for them now. Some women I have hurt for no reason but just to satisfy my huge but very fragile ego. That’s a h** move. It took me a long time to really appreciate the finer qualities of a woman. My point I am trying to make there is no such thing as an open relationship. If two adults are just physical (fu$k buddies) that’s fine. It’s not a relationship, an understanding maybe but not a relationship. A relationship is closed, exclusive, fully committed. I said it earlier an open relationship is an oxymoron like committed fu$k buddies. It maybe it’s all about word usage to you and others. I am just trying to share something that I call wisdom. You can only get wisdom through living
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Point taken,
I just think this whole thread took a silly turn. It was reading like an indictment of LR's relationship.
 



Hmmm, I sent this out the other day in response to someone's email to me & the feedback I received from those who I forwarded it to. As far as this thread: To each his own.

----- Original Message -----
From: Fortitude
Sent: Sunday, January 31, 2010 12:42 PM
Subject: Life Lesson - Part Deux

KNOW YOUR WORTH/VALUE! Don't allow people to compartmentalize you into their narrow view of who you are to them. Folks will try & make you their "Jump Off," "Behind Closed Doors & Never Seen In Public Companion," &/or their "When They Feel Like It Lover." You'd better remind yourself of WHO YOU ARE & KNOW YOUR WORTH! Some who come at you like that normally are carnal minded & have low spiritual & moral fiber. Notice, I didn't say they didn't know Christ, because some do, but they have NOT THE MIND OF CHRIST. They can't see your value & appreciate it because their heart & mind is NOT inclined to do so (as it is not COMPLETELY CONTROLLED by God.) They only see what they can get FROM you ($$$, sex, help, bragging rights, shelter, etc.) to SATISFY their selfish nature. For a 3rd time - KNOW YOUR WORTH!
Rise up in YOUR thinking because some things we get in; we really ENJOY! But there are no blessings there. It's not always easy & you may slip, but like they say at Weight Watchers, "Every day is a new day to begin again." In time, God will send you someone who has a relationship w/Him & is endowed w/wisdom to appreciate you. Make sure you are equally strong in your relationship w/God so you don't overlook them. :- ) Finally - KNOW YOUR WORTH! ~Smooches~ XXXX
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Don't take responsibility for someone else's poor choices!!! - Joel Osteen
 
I got some news for you folks, um if you have ever had sex outside of a marriage you had an open relationship. If you ain't sexing your husband or wife, it is an open relationship. :tup: No ring, no commitment. :tup: Please stop lying to yourself. Most of you never married the folks you sexed the most. Therefore it was open. They sexed you and never made a commitment. That's open.
 
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CEE DOG said:
I got some news for you folks, um if you have ever had sex outside of a marriage you had an open relationship. If you ain't sexing your husband or wife, it is an open relationship. :tup: No ring, no commitment. :tup: Please stop lying to yourself. Most of you never married the folks you sexed the most. Therefore it was open. They sexed you and never made a commitment. That's open.
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Ni Cee... u know folks ain't finna admit to this.... :lol: Esp. after 4 pages of them sayin "I ain't with that shit" :lmao:



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CriTAUcal said:
You don't have to. Open relationships aren't for everyone to get with or even understand.
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And that's sums it up for me.

I'm not going to write a dissertation to explain something to someone or anyone who isn't open to trying to understand.

What's for me, IS FOR ME. Some women like to get their skulls bashed, so they stay with abusive men. Some men prefer a women who emasculates them, so they stay with badgering women. Some men, prefer men. So they date them. Some peope prefer exclusitivity, so that's what THEY do. Whats the problem?
 
After I just read 3 to 4 pages of people who attended post secondarty school of some sort, where is all this sex with multiple people come in? How did swinging get thrown in....and what part of my boyfriend being in South Korea is hard to grasp? How is it we were dippin with each other, over seas? He was/is not here. #kanyeshrug
 
Lady Rebel said:
After I just read 3 to 4 pages of people who attended post secondarty school of some sort, where is all this sex with multiple people come in? How did swinging get thrown in....and what part of my boyfriend being in South Korea is hard to grasp? How is it we were dippin with each other, over seas? He was/is not here. #kanyeshrug
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Folks didn't read. They just wanted to throw their two cents in because they believe everyone operates on "their" moral scale.

They are trying to say that an Open relationship is "settling" or accepting "something less than deserved." Some folks can't fathom that there are people out here who think differently than them. LR, do you. In the end, it is your life and no one can tell you what makes "you" happy.
 
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