I came from a single parent household! However, it was unique because my father was involved in my life and still is. I was what is known as an "outside" child but had the opportunity to interact with my other brothers and sisters on a regular basis. We all are very close and supportive of each other. It helped that my older brother (by my father) set the stage by showing love to my two older sisters (mother) when they came in contact with each other as teens. Yes, Pappa was a rolling stone. But he is a good man who loved his children and made sure that they treated each other as brother and sister.
I love both of my parents, but there is more of a bond between me and my mother. I'm her only son (an older-by 2 years- brother) died when I was 7, so it was me and my two older sisters. I had it made, because these 3 ladies, my greatgrandmother who lived with us, and my grandmother (who lived nearby) and my "aunts" who were my mother's first cousins thought I was the isht.
Lucky for me, Dad came around to keep it real for my azz. He never whipped me, but the threat of getting my face smacked and butt kicked (figuratively) kept me in line. The man was a good role model, in that he didn't sugar coat things or try to hide it. I once asked him why two families...he matter of factly said, " It's wrong, but I wanted to do it". Then he said, just don't you do it son, it ain't easy and it's hard to find 1 good woman now adays much less two. Well fortunately, I found that one good one and we have been together 22 years with 3 children and a godchild (my oldest son's godchild) who lives with us and a granddaughter on the way (my mannish azz youngest son).
PS: Still looking for that good #2 (Like Father Like Son)