Marriage: Single Men Who are 30+


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This is for those men who are OVER 30.


What's preventing ya'll from marriage, especially those who are much older and knocking down 50, like Cee? :D What ya'll waiting on?

And for the divorced men? Will you consider re-marriage with the right woman? Any guys on here who did re-marry?
 



CriTAUcal said:
This is for those men who are OVER 30.


What's preventing ya'll from marriage, especially those who are much older and knocking down 50, like Cee? :D <font color="red">Yoke</font>
What ya'll waiting on? <font color="red">Right one to yoke w/. lol</font>


And for the divorced men? Will you consider re-marriage with the right woman? <font color="red">Only if she fits my yoke.</font>

Any guys on here who did re-marry? <font color="red">Hell to the naw. :D</font>
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:clap: :bowdown: I'm proud of my answers. :clap:

There's only ONE answer for men over the age of 25. I say over 25 because young men under 25, of which I was once one :smh:, are pretty blindly dumb when it comes to the TRUTH about maintaining a relationship w/ someone of the opposite sex. :read: Here's the only solution for men, who seek to co-exist in the entity called marriage:
<img src="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/a/ac/Yoke_of_Oxen_and_Driver.jpg">
Same type of animal. Same direction. Same objective. Same speed. Eating same food. Shitting same type of shit. Drinking same type of drink. Serving the EXACT SAME master. :read: (just because you're chrisshun doesn't mean there won't be differing points of view about religeon :read: ) ...
 
Men face the same challenges as women. There are ragedy men and just as man ragedy women. The major issue for me is having a very close relationship with my mother and sister and quite frankly they are hyper critical of the women I date. I have found not to allow a woman to meet them unless this woman is the ONE.

The other issue is that some women have life confused. I have a sister with a successful Yoga Business and my mother is a retired elected official. Hence I want an educated woman who fulfills her dreams. Yet, I want a woman who understands that there are roles in relationships. The man has a role and the woman has a role. There are things that quite frankly I can do for myself like cooking, cleaning, etc.... I pursue companionship. I can only enjoy my homeboys and my SHIPS for so long until I want to hang with my woman.

Truth be told a significant other gives you better advice than your friends....because they have more to lose....that's my opinion. Furthermore, marriage to me is only an extension of the current relationship that you have. If your relationship is not worth a dime then the marriage will not be either. If she/he was a whore before you got married...that's what they will be after marriage....that goes along with other issues.
 
CriTAUcal said:
I'm getting sick of looking at that picture. :lol:
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The picture is the truth though, now isn't it? lol C'mon now. Give a brotha' a lil' bit of credit for kicking real knowledge every now and then regarding relationships. P88 may play internet stupid, but he sho' ain't relationship dumb (anymore lol).

Why waste time entertaining someone you know damned well there is zero possibility of a future w/? :read: *oooooooops!!!* Unless one just loves living the mentally and emotionally stressful life dealing w/ an ass (donkey). lol If some choose it, then gawd bless'em.
 
I can only speak for myself, but the answer is simple. Most men are looking for a woman that they can be with. I am looking for that one woman that I can't be without!
 
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The Founder said:
Men face the same challenges as women. There are ragedy men and just as man ragedy women. The major issue for me is having a very close relationship with my mother and sister and quite frankly they are hyper critical of the women I date. I have found not to allow a woman to meet them unless this woman is the ONE.

The other issue is that some women have life confused. I have a sister with a successful Yoga Business and my mother is a retired elected official. Hence I want an educated woman who fulfills her dreams. Yet, I want a woman who understands that there are roles in relationships. The man has a role and the woman has a role. There are things that quite frankly I can do for myself like cooking, cleaning, etc.... I pursue companionship. I can only enjoy my homeboys and my SHIPS for so long until I want to hang with my woman.

Truth be told a significant other gives you better advice than your friends....because they have more to lose....that's my opinion. Furthermore, marriage to me is only an extension of the current relationship that you have. If your relationship is not worth a dime then the marriage will not be either. If she/he was a whore before you got married...that's what they will be after marriage....that goes along with other issues.
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I feel ya. :tup:
 
Panther88 said:
The picture is the truth though, now isn't it? lol C'mon now. Give a brotha' a lil' bit of credit for kicking real knowledge every now and then regarding relationships. P88 may play internet stupid, but he sho' ain't relationship dumb (anymore lol).

Why waste time entertaining someone you know damned well there is zero possibility of a future w/? :read: *oooooooops!!!* Unless one just loves living the mentally and emotionally stressful life dealing w/ an ass (donkey). lol If some choose it, then gawd bless'em.
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Just messing with you about the picture (sorta). I do totally agree with you on not wasting your (or the other person's) time. :tup:
 
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Makaho 2.0 said:
I can only speak for myself, but the answer is simple. Most men are looking for a woman that they can be with. I am looking for that one woman that I can't be without!
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Not that I'm rushing you, but I know you come across tons of women (good and bad), I'm sure. And you haven't met her yet, Mak? Do you eventually want marriage?
 



southsuburbs said:
I thought it was just me.

Same song, over and over and over and over and over and over and over...
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That picture could keep you from having a lot of heartaches and pains heffa'. :| If you find you a man lol :emlaugh:, and he cannot tell you a minimum of 15 sentences of what that picture means, I'd strongly suggest you run away from that dude. :tup: Double-ditto for us menfolk excepting that pic should generate @ a minimum 40-45 sentences of what it means to her. :)
 
Panther88 said:
That picture could keep you from having a lot of heartaches and pains heffa'. :| If you find you a man lol :emlaugh:, and he cannot tell you a minimum of 15 sentences of what that picture means, I'd strongly suggest you run away from that dude. :tup: Double-ditto for us menfolk excepting that pic should generate @ a minimum 40-45 sentences of what it means to her. :)
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Even with finding someone who shares your same beliefs, lifestyle, higher being and going in the same direction as you, it still doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. I was married to someone whose life, interests, beliefs were identical to mine. And I'm now single.
 
CriTAUcal said:
This is for those men who are OVER 30.


What's preventing ya'll from marriage, especially those who are much older and knocking down 50, like Cee? :D What ya'll waiting on?

And for the divorced men? Will you consider re-marriage with the right woman? Any guys on here who did re-marry?
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Ain't waiting on nothing. Being single is not a lonely death wish. :lol:
Marriage is a come or don't come thing. It has never been a "i got to get married or it's the end of the world" kind of thing with me. A lot of people these days get married just to say they married. That is something I will never, ever, do. :tup:
 
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CriTAUcal said:
Not that I'm rushing you, but I know you come across tons of women (good and bad), I'm sure. And you haven't met her yet, Mak? Do you eventually want marriage?
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Look, I aint gonna sit here and say something as arrogant as "I haven't found the right one because she didn't fit the bill" b.s. like that. In many cases I was the one that didn't have their shit together. The Makaho 2.0 you see now is waaaay better off than Makaho_Bedrock ever was. lol Things happen for a reason though. It might not be my time yet. But hey, I'll find her one day.....a lot quicker when those restraining orders get lifted though. lol
 
CriTAUcal said:
Even with finding someone who shares your same beliefs, lifestyle, higher being and going in the same direction as you, it still doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. I was married to someone whose life, interests, beliefs were identical to mine. And I'm now single.
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And of course there's much more to it than having the same interests and beliefs. Two good people can be bad together.
 
jstate83 said:
Ain't waiting on nothing. being single is not a lonely death wish. :lol:
Marriage is a come or don't come thing. It has never been a "i got to get married or it's the end of the world" kind of thing with me. A lot of people these days get married just to say they married. That is something I will never, ever, do. :tup:
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Hey, you ain't gotta convince me. :lol: I do still think marriage can be a WONDERFUL thing though. And just wondering why some of ya'll still aren't married and if the divorced ones wouldn't mind doing marriage again.
 
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Makaho 2.0 said:
Look, I aint gonna sit here and say something as arrogant as "I haven't found the right one because she didn't fit the bill" b.s. like that. In many cases I was the one that didn't have their shit together. The Makaho 2.0 you see now is waaaay better off than Makaho_Bedrock ever was. lol Things happen for a reason though. It might not be my time yet. But hey, I'll find her one day.....a lot quicker when those restraining orders get lifted though. lol
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:lol: :lol:
 
CriTAUcal said:
Even with finding someone who shares your same beliefs, lifestyle, higher being and going in the same direction as you, it still doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. I was married to someone whose life, interests, beliefs were identical to mine. And I'm now single.
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Very true. But still, if nothing <b>changes</b>, be it he or she, then the probability for a successful marriage is there. Seems to me the foundation has to be solid first and foremost before all parties can attempt to build upon it. :read: No stolid foundation, more than naught, from what I can tell, there'll be a rocky marriage on the horizon, somewhere, somehow.

Seems to me if you have 2 individuals, same type upbringing, same type beliefs, same type direction, same type objectives, same type caring/compassion for one another, same type desires, same type etc... w/ pure unadulterated uninhibited friendship evident, that would be a huge recipe for success (stolid foundation). I can honestly state that 100% of the former relationships I had w/ females I'd encountered sexually through life, I wasn't friends w/ them, at all. And to this day, <b>none</b> of them can contact me or speak to me. My choice as it serves zero choice to me other than to probably entertain me, like I would be entertained if I went to the zoo to look @ a monkey. That's a loaded statement back there lol. :read:
 
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